I think I can be fully in love with her and have sex with another woman without it impacting my feelings for my girlfriend.
Some people disagree with this, what do you think?
I wrote a blog dedicated to this topic to expand on my thoughts. If you are curious check out my profile for the link.
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2007-01-24 05:51:02 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-24 05:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think if you're fully in love with her, you'd respect her enough to be honest and not break her trust. There is such a thing as an open relationship. There's also swinging. Such alternative lifestyles present an honest way to have your cake and eat it too, and in this day and age a lot of people are open to these ideas.
2016-05-24 04:43:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex with another women means that you are not in love with your girlfriend. There is no way around it, unless it was some already discussed and agreed upon situation for you and your girlfriend was participating in the act, but that's another story.
If you feel that you NEED to have sex with more than one woman at a time, then perhaps long-term relationships simply aren't meant for you, which is perfectly fine so long as you are honest and upfront with the women you sleep with.
2007-01-24 05:57:25 · answer #3 · answered by little miss green 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men can seperate sex from love, but having sex with someone else means you are just using that person. You may love your girlfriend, but not enough to be fully commited and not risk losing her.
She will find out, Women have highly advanced skills in perception and she will pick up on your vibes, or hear it in your voice.
Next you'll see her on here asking "how do you know when your man is cheating." Then you'll have your 5 minutes of fame.
2007-01-24 06:01:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like it will soon be developing into a 3-some with another girl. I had a similar situation a few months back and it was simply incredible. My girl thought that I liked the other girl more because I had sex with her all day and only about an hour with my girlfriend. I explained to my girl that I always have sex with her and that her watching me have sex with another girl was an ultimate turn-on for me and that I love her even more for it. She completely fell for it and we invite the other girl over from time to time when she is in town.
2007-01-24 05:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I was in a simiar situation about 6 months back and It truly depend on how you really feel about your girlfriend. Because sex can be just that, but if you are leading ppl on thats when your jugdement comes into question. You can still sleep with other ppl and have feelings only for your girlfriend but what does that about how your level of respect for your girlfriend.
If you love some one as you claim you do but don't show it do you really love or even respect them?
2007-01-24 05:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by lil_mac_ma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope! You can love two, three or four people that doesn't change how you feel about that person. Look you are not given 100 tokens of love. So you are going to give 15 to one, 35 to another, 20 to the next and 30 to the last. That is weird. Youlove them all the same for different reasons. You love your siblings or family you don't just love one person of your family. All I can say is share the love!!!
2007-01-24 05:58:09 · answer #7 · answered by Tricee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think about this, would you love her if she cheated on you and she says she still loves but wanted to sex with another guy? Would you still feel the same about her?
You should really think about that and realize that you should treat people the way you want to be treated. Then go cheat if you have no conscience after that!
Remember, payback is a bit&h!
2007-01-24 05:57:29 · answer #8 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on what your gf thinks of this. Some long term, committed couples have an "open" marriage. Love and sex, for them, are separate issues.
For most, though, monogamy is essential to a nurturing, loving relationship.
My definition of cheating: If your partner found out about what you were doing, would they be okay with it? If not, it's cheating.
2007-01-24 05:58:40 · answer #9 · answered by gamblin man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you like your girlfriend to say the same thing..I'm sure she could have sex with other men and still love you...What goes around comes around...Do on to other as you would have them do to you!! Be a real man and just move on and let her find a man who will really love her and be faithful.
2007-01-24 11:52:44 · answer #10 · answered by leelee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no it doesn't mean that you don't love your girlfriend it may just be the simple fact that you can't/ isn't giving you want you need and you feel that if she can't do it then you have to find it somewhere and of course her feelings will be hurt and you should of took them into consideration before you made this big relationship threatening mistake.
2007-01-24 06:00:11 · answer #11 · answered by Lady T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋