what should i do to get this girl that i like to know that i like her i dont want to come out and tell her
2007-01-24 05:44:48 · 28 answers · asked by bloody illusions 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you have things in common that you know of? You can suggest that the two of you go and do something together that you both enjoy...maybe with a group of friends so it is less threatening. Get to know her better and be her friend and go from there. If you already are her friend, please tell her that you have deeper feelings and let her take it from there. She might feel the same about you and be afraid to say anything too. Just go ahead and do it! The pain of rejection is quick and harsh, but the pain of never knowing how another feels or being able to express your true feelings is much worse and longer lasting. Best wishes!
2007-01-24 05:53:09 · answer #1 · answered by fair blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may want to lay down some subtle hints. see if she is feeling the same way as well. if she does like you too, then start up conversations with her, get to know her better. the more you are around her, the more you will feel comfortable around her to eventually tell her how you really feel. if, she's not as interested as you are and doesn't really give you any hints that she likes you. then you may want to still get to know her and keep her as a friend for now until she sees what you have to offer.
plus, some of the best relationships begin as friendships!!
good luck!
2007-01-24 05:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by danielley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the most attractive things to females, are males who can be MALE. If you like her - you need to just come out with it and tell her. Girls aren't mind-readers. Suck it up - you were born the male - if you want her to like you - your best chance is making the first move and not being too shy about it.
2007-01-24 05:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by Marvelissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt
2007-01-24 05:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by Tha "Bay Be" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, well anything else would seem like your playing games. So a little flirting should do the trick. Seriously though, send her some flowers.
2007-01-24 05:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by yaiyai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you believe in saying "action speaks louder than words"?
saying that you like a girl is sometimes very surprising and could create a negative impact, try to do small things for her or just befriend her first. It'll help... (",)
2007-01-24 05:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by aNnE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These days of playing games is over. Just tell thegirl you like her b4 someone else beat you to the punchline.
2007-01-24 05:48:55 · answer #7 · answered by momseekinganswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would advise to tell her because she can't read your mind and you leave her guessing. girls DON"T like that. trust me. Flirting is good, but being honest about you feeling is better. starting a conversation about relationship could be really easy to do.
2007-01-24 05:58:06 · answer #8 · answered by one in ninety-nine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, unless she is physic, how else is she going to know? You have to show some interest and let her know what you are feeling. You'll never get anywhere if you don't speak up.
2007-01-24 05:49:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
show her that ur interested by talking with her and LISTENING and asking questions. Look her in the eye. If the chemestry is working - it will happen. Let nature take its course :)
2007-01-24 05:49:41 · answer #10 · answered by mizzchatterbox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋