since he left me i got ill with depression ,and sometimes i think of taking extra dose and end this feeling,i feel so bad ,i miss him ,i need him ,i dont know what to do ,im powerless,hopeless.
2007-01-24 05:44:31 · 16 answers · asked by borz_f 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
This too shall pass my dear. Trust me if he left you then he was the one doing you a favor! Yes, it will be extremely hard getting over your love but you can do it! If i could do it you most definitely can! Find other activities to occupy your time with. That way you'll have no time to think about him. Surround yourself with good people. And who knows before you know it, when someone asks about him....you'll be like "WHO"? Good Luck!
2007-01-24 05:50:09 · answer #1 · answered by candikisses 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If there's an Al Ateen Meeting in your area begin attending. They meet weekly, last an hour and have proven extremely beneficial to teenages stuck in toxic environments. You might want to google Al Ateen and find an online meeting as well. Too, do a search on each of the following abandonment, enmeshment, boundaries, denial... I think reading this material may help you start down a new path. However, I do think if you can find a meeting to attend in your city and begin attending, doing so will prove even more beneficial. Is there a school counselor with whom you can meet? It's a shame you're stuck in this situation, but some parent's, due to their own upbringing, are just unable to provide the emotional nurturing a child deserves and needs. If you'll do what I suggest, I know you can find the help you need to lead a more enjoyable and productive life. Good luck and God bless. P. S. A couple of good books might want to read are 1) Toxic Parents and 2) Healing the Shame That Binds You.
2016-05-24 04:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart you need to go have a day out, it is hard but time will help. You need to make yourself feel independent and strong. I have gone through this when my husband of 6 years decided to take a break from our marriage. I thought I would just die, the depression, sick stomach and no sleep was the worst. What I did was go to work, and try to go out to dinner with friends and not talk about stuff that would upset me. Another thing I did when I had nothing to do was I went to the gym, sometimes 2 time a day. Don't sit at home and just think and cry. Going to the gym will not only make you feel better but it will make you look better. One more thing you need to be sure not to do is drive him crazy don't call him all the time and don't make yourself seem weak to him you want to show him how strong you are, men like that. It worked for me and my husband. This is a great opportunity for you to better you self and make good changes.
2007-01-24 05:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by mary k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, there is no man worth you taking your own life. My advice to you is to have a good friend or someone that you trust to help you build up your self esteem up and have you to realize that if you hurt yourself he still won't come back. Get your priorities in order and get yourself together. Go out and treat yourself to something nice so that you will feel good about you. If you are not a bad person, you carry yourself like a lady and have a good personality then there is a man out there looking for you that will treat you like a queen. Just remember not to make the next man pay for the last man's mistakes. Don't judge him or compare him to your ex it will always fail. Keep your guards up and look out for the signs that he gave you so that you will not get hurt again. YOU ARE SOMEONE SPECIAL. GOOD LUCK
2007-01-24 06:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by sexceeladie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In reality if you think about it we are all dying slowly anyway from the time we are born.
It sounds like you need to seek counseling to deal with the loss of your boyfriend or husband. It does take a long time for the heart to heal and you will need to find a coping strategy that works for you. I had my heart broken once but after years of longing to have him back I realized that he wasn't worth it. He and I weren't even compatible. Moving on and finding happiness is the best way to persevere.
2007-01-24 05:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking for life where there is none. He can't give you life, he can only half feel the emptiness inside of you, but you don't need him to live, you need air, food and water for your body and love and faith for your soul. Without God life has no meaning, and what you are experience right now is because you have made an idol of a man, loving him more than God. What you are doing is lack of love for yourself and life is more than just a guy. Is all an illusion or an idea of man that you have, you need to hate the idea of man that you have and know that man is weak/woman are weak and this things happen. This things helps us to mature in life and we learn from it, if we don't then we remain immature all our lives, incapable of suffering.
2007-01-24 05:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheer up sweetie! i know being without someone you love is hard, but you have to move on. think of him, he is probably moving on just fine. stand up for yourself, do something to make you feel good about yourself. get these bad thoughts out of your head, thats no good, just think of all the people that you have in your life that would miss you tremendously. maybe you should talk to a doctor that might help. you are not powerless and hopeless. dont let him get the best of you. believe me you will get over this and feel better in no time. you will eventually meet someone new and forget about whats his name. please talk to someone you always feel better when you talk and get everything off your chest. my heart goes out to you! please get help! god bless you!
2007-01-24 05:57:48 · answer #7 · answered by missaboo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as much as you don't want to hear it...get up and do something. try as hard as you can to keep your mind occupied with other things and before you know it, you won't think about him at all. i'm a little confused about what you want to take an extra dose of but don't do nething stupid like killing yourself b/c no man is worth losing your life over!! it will get easier with time, trust me. just try as best as you can to keep your mind occupied and keep yourself surrounded by distractions and you'll be just fine. good luck!!
2007-01-24 05:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by chingona1027 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not powerless or hopeless i know it dus not fell like it right now.talk let youre feelings out.you will be ok yes it will tack time.and reading what you wrote you love him very much im sorry,but one day at a time fell beter good luck:)
2007-01-24 07:48:45 · answer #9 · answered by xo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you think this is the end of the world but it is not, it seems you have more of a serious problem than a broken heart you are sucidial you need to seek counseling, as for the guy..you will find better don't let a man ruin your life! they are not worth it !
2007-01-24 05:56:16 · answer #10 · answered by Ms.DaSilva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋