This might sound silly, but sometimes I really wonder if girls have the same desires as men do for things especially sex. Guys think about it all the time, and talk about it and joke about it. I never see girls expressing any interest in it.
I've been with two girls and the first one had endometriosis, which made it painful for her to have sex, and the second one was like a dead fish in bed, as in she just laid there like a corpse, while I tried to do things to turn her on.
I hope I'm wrong, but I really think that girls just aren't into sex!
2007-01-24 05:42:01 · 26 answers · asked by Jason 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bwah-ha-ha-ha-ha! So, from your experience with two girls, you're trying to make a statement about ALL women? I hope you know how silly that sounds. It's a good thing you thought to ask more women about THEIR perspective before you made up your mind.
Yes, women have sexual desires, just as men do, but it's not the "same" sort of desire. We desire and value different things when it comes to sex - ie, whereas as a man might value the quantity of experience, a woman might place more value on the quality of each experience, or the emotional connection sparked by an experience.
Also, note that there is a difference between girls and women, and what women will discuss in front of men and what they will discuss privately with other women. The "girls" you know may be young and may not have developed an interest in sex yet (even though they may be willing to go along with YOUR activities). This is perfectly normal - everyone has different levels of interest in things, and may develop an interest later in life. Your "dead fish" may simply not be a sexual person, or may not be a sexual person *yet*.
I assure you, there are PLENTY of women out there with a healthy level of interest and enjoyment in sex, and we talk and joke about it almost as much as you do. Give it time, and wait to date women who have reached the same level of interest that you have.
2007-01-24 05:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls do like sex...a lot. No offense, but two girls doesn't give you a large frame of reference. Don't misunderstand, I'm not telling you to go out and try to bed every girl you meet. Find the right girl first, and then the two of you can become comfortable enough together to experiment and communicate likes and dislikes. The second girl you were with probably had very little experience or was doing it for the wrong reason. Good Luck!
2007-01-24 05:51:46 · answer #2 · answered by ouramasongrace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls don't think about sex nearly as often as most boys do, however your assumption that girls aren't into sex is completely wrong.
Perhaps you should look into getting a book or two and developing some new technique and learn about how the female body work so you will be better equipped to get your partner in the mood. The worst thing a guy can do is learn about sex from porn.
2007-01-24 05:50:39 · answer #3 · answered by smedrik 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ew. The dead fish thing sent a little shiver down my spine. To answer your question, though, I'd say that there are definately girls out there who are into sex. I mean, one of my listed questions, as embarrassing as it has proved to be, is "Ever want sex so bad you can't sleep?" So females can definately be as horny as you guys. Just make sure that when you're looking for a girl who enjoys sex that she also has a great personality. Because if for some reason she ever gets tired of sex you'll just be jeft with a dirty ho.
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2016-10-16 01:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by basinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I love sex i wish mu husband and i did it more! we are both so tired all the time, right know my husband and i have sex about 1 maybe 2 times a week. then it has been so long that he gets off quicker and i don't get pleased. maybe i should give him head more that would help! but anyways there are girls out there that like it you just have to find one of them!!!!
2007-01-24 05:52:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are wrong in thinking girls do not enjoy sex. Girls mature faster than most boys and know the risks of having sex. Also, you guys are always calling girls HO's if they even act as if they enjoy sex. So there are alot of factors here to consider.
2007-01-24 05:47:52 · answer #7 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, it's not true, grab your confidence back.. We like sex. Maybe you need to find the right girl...we do think about it too, and talk about it too, but did you really have to say the dead fish thing? so creepy.
2007-01-24 05:48:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are doing it wrong. Females like sex just as much as guys do.
As George Carlin said: Women need a reason for sex, mne just need a place....or something to that effect.
2007-01-24 05:47:30 · answer #9 · answered by boredperv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls enjoy sex. You just haven't experienced it yet with the right girl. Don't force it. It will be right when the right girl comes along.
2007-01-24 05:47:34 · answer #10 · answered by momseekinganswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋