He's Been really great, he takes me out, refuses to let me pay for things, says that he loves me, etc etc. Then he went away for xmas and I haven't heard from him since New Years!! He was supposed to give me a number to reach him on and he hasn't. He was supposed to be gone for 3 weeks and it's almost a month. His phones still off so I know he's not back.... What should I do, and would there be ANY reason/excuse, besides getting shipwrecked and having all his fingers amputated, that he would have for not getting in contact with me??
2007-01-24 05:37:33 · 19 answers · asked by orangeunderpants 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S. He's not married..... I checked all that business out b4
2007-01-24 05:52:46 · update #1
Don't wait for him any longer. Either he's traveling and can't be reached wherever he is, or he's lost interest and doesn't have the courtesy to inform you of the fact.
Leave him one more message saying that since you haven't heard from in so long, you're not sure what his intentions are, so you will consider the relationship as finished, and that if there's been some misunderstanding, he should contact you.
Then go off and date other guys, you've done all you can.
2007-01-24 05:46:05 · answer #1 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a smart lady. I read Greg Berendt and he says if a man wants to contact you, he does not forget how, and nothing stops him from doing it - even an emergency. It seems to me that if he wanted to get in touch with you, he would have found a way to. The sad news is he is not that into you. He may have found another woman to treat like a princess. It may be a thing he does - sweeping into women's lives, playing Prince Charming with all the surface things that are nice but not real work, then vanishing before a REAL relationship can begin. I would enjoy what he offered and be thankful for the brief fun time he gave you. Now focus on you and attract a man who will treat you lovingly full-time - not just part-time.
2007-01-24 13:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he has used this trip as an excused to cut ties, or any strings etc. Because, he probably has no excuse or reason to not call and say hello. I think you should forget about him and just find somebody else, and if comes back he better have his fingers amputated as an excused!!
2007-01-24 13:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly he ma have ditched you, but it seems like you're waiting on a chance life with prince charming. That's a bad idea. Trust and Honesty are a good thing.
Don't rule out that he may have had a death in the family, or have been sucked into a tornado. Stranger things have happened in my life.
2007-01-24 13:42:12 · answer #4 · answered by chapman_red 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Value the fond memories of the time you had together but I think it's about time for you to move on. If he were really interested in you, he'd have found a way to get in touch with you.
You might want to think twice about putting it "cut it off" With what happened to Bobbit, it's not exactly the greatest choice of words. LOL
2007-01-24 13:44:37 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he probably just dumped you and doesn't want to have the break up talk (coward). You may be a fine girl but maybe he decided he didn't click with you. Either way, his lack of contacting you frees you up to meet new guys. If he wants to get back together, it's your call.
2007-01-24 13:42:26 · answer #6 · answered by Brad R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would because it sounds like he"s playing games and you put your life on hold for this boy who you haven't talked to in a long time, you know like what's the best explanation for him not calling you. You should move on because you can do way better than this guy.
2007-01-24 13:43:55 · answer #7 · answered by Lady T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that he was probably married and cheating on his wife to get back at her or sumthin. You were the just someone he needed a t that time. Probably just hung around for fun. I bet he thought play time was over and decided to call quits. Dont worry, move on..Plenty of fish in the sea!
:)
2007-01-24 13:44:14 · answer #8 · answered by Lynne 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Somebody else received him as a Christmas present. You should have been nicer to him... (Hint, hint)... guess you didn' t return the favor so he shipwrecked himself and deleted your number, not amputated his fingers.
2007-01-24 13:43:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everything happens for a reason. When he does contact you back, maturely ask him why. If he gives you a dumb answer, let him go. if he gives you a valid answer, you will carry on and not feel embarassed.
2007-01-24 13:42:34 · answer #10 · answered by jessrich1000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋