I'm in my 20's, I love to have fun and hang out but don't drink/smoke etc. and am not going to sleep with any guy till i'm married to him so...my question is, do guys maybe not aproach me sometimes just knowing that i have these morals?
2007-01-24 05:36:23 · 15 answers · asked by shine_on 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most certainly there would be some young fella's with their hormones going full tilt that would see this as a character defect. But there are many other young males who would view this type of behaviour/morals and values as blue ribbon or gold medal behaviour. So keep up being yourself and do not allow others to try and dictate how you should live your live as there are far to many temptations available nowadays with lowering your standards. In my opinion you will be a real catch for the right guy and in all reality probably have one of the most successful and long lasting relationships of any peers your age. Best of luck and thanks for posing this question.
2007-01-24 05:44:10 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel - I am a similar "good girl." My mother has always said that boys can sense that you're not going to sleep with them on the first date, etc, and if that's what they're looking for they won't be interested.
Sometimes you go through patches when you are willing to make out with someone on a dance floor, or to go out with someone you know isn't marriage material just to get out and meet new people. But stay true to your principles and wait for someone who is willing to wait for you.
I find that being a virgin is a great way to weed out crappy men: if he doesn't want to keep seeing you after you tell him he's not getting laid, he wasn't worth your time in the first place. Be up front and you won't regret anything. When I told my current BFI was a virgin, he said that he had decided long ago that he wasn't going to sleep with anyone else till he was married. That bonded us together because I knew that he would never violate my wishes.
Good luck!
2007-01-24 13:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by Mysterious Gryphon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very true, some guys will not approach you because of your morals, but that would be true if you were smoking, drinking and sleeping around too. The guys that don;t approach you because of your morals are guys you don't want or need anyway. Stick to the ones that appreciate you morals and your stand, you'll be glad you did.
Congrats on some hard choices, stick with it and best of luck!
2007-01-24 13:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by magicman116 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yh u r rite! realt uv does nt depend on sex! its abt feelings! guys just use guls who make up wid them n then forget them! basicaly u r rite in a sense dat u wont be used by others n the person wholl marry u will be close 2 ur feelings not just body !
2007-01-24 13:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by dia a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there are guys that like quiet,conservative, virgin girls just like there are guys that like the opposite of that. You will find a guy that likes you just how you are. There is no rush, dont get desperate. Before you know it, there wil be a guy.
2007-01-24 13:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh no, I find it more intriguing and more sexy to find a woman with your resolve. I'd pick you from most other girls in a heart beat. I've dated a couple of girls like you and I thought it was great.
2007-01-24 13:57:07 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Most wont approach because you wont sleep with them. Let me tell you that those guys are'nt what your after. Go for the ones who won't pressure u for sex. You'll be more happy for that.
2007-01-24 13:39:16 · answer #7 · answered by Danny S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They don't approach because you aren't any fun. Don't drink/smoke/f**K. What do you do for fun then, crossword puzzles?
2007-01-24 13:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by danzahn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes young women who are strong like you are intimidating to others male and female.stay strong and be true to your self.
2007-01-24 13:43:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girl i like is a good girl. so yes
2007-01-24 13:39:18 · answer #10 · answered by whenyouremad23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋