I dont have a phone and I have guy friends and I use their phones to call my boyfriend. Then if he calls those phones back, and hears a guys voice, he thinks stupid stuff like I am being unloyal to him. Come on, I use their phones to call him!!!!!!!!!!HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-24 05:33:40 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he's insecure but you also have to look at it this way... if it was the other way around and he was calling you from a girls phone and you called it back and a girl answered how would you feel... maybe you should try finding a pay phone just so he can't accuse you... just a thought...
2007-01-24 05:38:01 · answer #1 · answered by Wiked 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get your own phone, or tell your boyfriend to get you a phone. By the way there are always pay phones just about everywhere.
2007-01-24 05:37:11 · answer #2 · answered by ginger 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, how would you like it if he used girls phones to call you? Somehow I feel you are playing games with him, just a hunch, but I feel this. my guess is that if he did not react and get mad when you call him from a guys phone, you would be upset. Just another hunch. Do you not have girls who are your friends that can lend you a phone. It might be more annoyance than not trusting you. Go to a phone booth and call him.
2007-01-24 05:37:45 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get a phone, stop calling him from guys numbers, and just don't cheat.
2007-01-24 05:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by strtat2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i gotta say if he doesn't trust you enough, he doesn't respect you enough, and those two things are what makes up a relationship. get a phone maybe, that might take care of things, but you always have to remember how he reacts to the small things because they always come up again later.
another thing...i really believe the saying that if someone can't trust another...its because they can't trust themselves. maybe he knows that he's untrustworthy but is keeping you on your toes so you don't look at his actions....just a thought. best thing...get a phone and tell him to chill out. (You don't have to get a phone either...)
2007-01-24 06:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by zeek 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're Female right? Impossible that you will "never" cheat. Just the fact that you are hanging around "guy friends" and using their phones to twist your boyfriend's cookies sounds like you are well on your way to being a man eater leaving a wake of destruction.
2007-01-24 05:40:24 · answer #6 · answered by Perry L 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If your boyfriend doesn't believe you when you say that you're not cheating on him then he doesn't trust you and nine times out of ten he's the one messing around and uses what you do (when u call him from other boys phones) to make hiself not feel so guilty.
2007-01-24 05:42:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
All you can do is tell him the truth. But since trust is one of the foundations of a relationship, you might want to re-examine whether you want to spend so much energy trying to get someone to believe you and why they don't. It's a problem with him, not you -- he's insecure. If you want to do something, an alternative is to get your own phone, if you can.
Good luck!
2007-01-24 05:43:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
ouch that sucks you should sefinatly not prove nything to him. if he doesn't trust you, he will always have questions. every day you call him on other people's phones, he will acuse you. i would stop calling him and then he will get mad at you for not calling. ten you say, "well, i don't want you to think that i am cheating on you so i won't call you on guy's phones anymore. i love youi i would neer do anything to hurt you." goo luck
2007-01-24 05:39:05 · answer #9 · answered by can'ywait2getoutofhere 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
stop using their phones, thats what pay phones are for.....with you having guy friends and hanging out with them alot then yea its hard for a guy to trust that
2007-01-24 05:37:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋