i really like this guy at my youth group and a few friends of mine thinks he likes me too but im stuck because im not sure if he has a girlfriend of if he would even like me....should i tell him how i feel...he makes me smile and says some things that always seem to make me laugh around me. I dont know what to do , this seems chilish but i really dont im going to see him tonight at youth what should i do..
2007-01-24 04:53:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him how you feel. I like this guy and he makes me smile and laugh all the time and were friends and i told him how i felt and he said right now he thinks of us just as friends. I bet this guy likes you and if you tell him how you feel everything will be alright and you guys acually will go out the worst that could happen is that he says that he just wants to friends right now but it means that there is hope and he will totally go out with you sometime just dont give up and have faith in it because by the way he sounds it sounds like he likes you a lot and you guys do have a chance together.
2007-01-24 05:00:51 · answer #1 · answered by Min 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT tell him how you feel--not yet. When you see him tonight, wait until you catch him alone and ask him if he has a girlfriend. Just make it a light, pleasant question, not too serious. If he says no, you say: "I was just wondering; you seem like such a nice guy."
If he then turns the question on you, you smile and say you don't have a boyfriend (again, don't sound too serious). Let him take it from there. If he likes you, he'll let you know, either tonight or the next time you see him.
BTW: If he says he does have a girlfriend, just smile and say, "I thought so," and walk away.
2007-01-24 13:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he has a girlfriend and if he does, let him know that you hope she is as nice as he is and walk away. If he doesn't, then tell him that you really enjoy his company and would like to have more of it. If he doesn't have a girlfriend and he makes you laugh, you have to do something about it. That is the one thing I tell my daughter, "Find someone that makes you laugh". My only regret (the one that got away) was the one that made me laugh.
2007-01-24 13:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by Mar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look!! Be chased>>>> not the chaser..
guys like it more when they think you are not interested.. be a little flirty not obvious though... touch his shoulder when he makes a joke laugh at his jokes but dont crack up..... ask him what he likes to do then ... then leave it alone....
example: what do you like to do for fun...He replies: skate boarding..and you say....O.K. that cool..and let it go.... Most of the time it works it self out and falls in place .. DONT SEEM DESPERATE caues he;ll move on to the next..If he;s Interested you;ll know...which i think he already does...If your friends know you like him and they are friend with his friends he knows already. be yourself.... and stay calm
2007-01-24 13:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by Lela T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just go ahead and try to get to know him better and see if he likes you. And don't think it's childish because everybody isn't the same and plus you may just be shy.
2007-01-24 13:01:20 · answer #5 · answered by Lady T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you go to youth tell him and give it a try and see what he sais. You never know he might actually liike yoiu
2007-01-24 13:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by Cassie G <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel, and see what happens. You won't know until you ask. And please, leave your friends out of your situation. Too many people being involved, could scare him away.
2007-01-24 12:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by angel_fire_21499 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel and God will sort out the rest.
2007-01-24 12:56:49 · answer #8 · answered by sixmillionways 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a friend of yours ask him
2007-01-24 12:58:38 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask his friends/boys/ , whether he likes you.
2007-01-24 12:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by hoopshola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋