Singles and Dating?

Question

Well, My Bf talks 2 This girl a little 2 much and she flurts w/ him back she trys 2 hide it but she cant my bf says nothing is going on and that their just close friends but B-4 he went out w/ me wich was 3 months ago he used 2 like her he also did the year B-4 what should I do?

Answer 1

That is a hard one because they could just be friends and then you are telling him to chose you or his close friends and you are going to be kicked to the curb.

I would just tell him that I am a little jealous of how much time that he spends talking with her and that I can see that she is more interested in just a friendship and talk it out with him and if he refuses to accept this you have options. You start talking to an old guy friend and when he says he don't like it just say we are friends and that you felt the same way about his friend ship with her and he assured you that it was nothing and that this is the same thing. I am sure he will either get the drift or he will not and he will want to either break up or make you stop talking to him and then you will have to decide what to do from there, follow his instructions and stay with him or let him go and move on.

Answer 2

Dear Pink Lady the solution is simple just wait for few time and keep on observing ur bf and that girl if both of them seem to get closer just ask ur bf politely(don't b harsh,it will make the matter worse)if he says no then give him ur observation and ask what
was that if he doesn't reply it's clear that it's the end of the road otherwise if he says there's noting wrong then tell him you don't like him talking 2 her it makes u in doubt.Best of luck!

Answer 3

Just relax it's nothing i like a lot of my friends but were just friends dont worry he's going out with you not this chick your talking about. If something does happen( which most likely wont) then he wasn't there for you and was just an idiot and didn't care about you. He's just a dick if he hurts you and if he does(which wont happen) then just forget him he's a *** ;>.

Answer 4

Remind him that YOU are his girlfriend and, as such, the only one allowed to flirt with him and that you don't like his hanging out with her, especially now that you know he liked her a year ago. But that will work only if you aren't hanging out with your ex bf's. If nothing works out use the "It's either her or me, honey" tactics, see where it leads you.

Answer 5

i understand how you feel -- my boyfriend used to like a different girl before he and i started going out. luckily for me, he doesn't talk to her anymore..

it's natural for you to have animosity towards her, and to perhaps be a little jealous.. but you have to remember that he is with YOU and not her for some reason..

you should just tell him how you feel about the situation, not just ask him about it. and remember, he is allowed to have friends and talk to whomever he wants -- you can't take that away from him. just be respectful and communicate

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Answer 6

First off, your boyfriend is FLIRTING with another girl WHICH is not a good thing. He is lying to you, and has one hell of a set to do it in front of you, get rid of him.

Answer 7

comfront him and tell him how you feel honesty is the best policy if he truely loves you he will take what you say in to concideration and stop

Answer 8

there are solid chances that they are going to cheat behind your back !please take care and what kinda passive gf are you? tell him its either me or her. either stop talking to her because its affecting my mental health or then goodbye to us.(say it sweetly, with a lot of charm and dress sexy that day).. goodluck..il be cheering for you.

Answer 9

talk to him about how you feel and if he doesn't understand and won't stop, then stop dating him. you deserve someone that is only interested in you.

Answer 10

Leave him. He's to flirty he'll wind up cheating.