should i just leave him and not tell him why?

Question

I'm gonna get alot of slack for this question but i'm gonna ask it anyway?
cause i'm freaking out . ok, i have been with my boyfriend for about 9 months and i already love him so much. i also get along really good with his family. he lives about an hour away from me so i dont see him much during the week. his best friend is his cousin . i sometimes hang out with him during the week when my boyfriend isnt here. last night we got really drunk and hooked and i think we might have even had sex, i dont remember that well, I was really drunk .we texted each other about this morning and both agreed we were just really drunk and leave it at that . but i kinda feel like even though i'm so happy with my bf and love him so much, i cant continue this relationship with this secret , should i break up with him but not tell him why, and just get out of the picture, even though i love him and that was just a mistake , never to happen again

Answer 1

Leaving him and not telling him is just throwing away whatever you two could possibly have together. It's probable that he's not ok with what happened, but you still need to come clean with him so that he knows what happened and why you're not together anymore. That's only fair to him.