she acts like were strangers wen we talkand its along distance relationship and shebroke up with me about 3monthsago over something stupid. but she knows i stillloveher. we had themost special thing and now she acts likewere strangers. could it be she just needs more time?
2007-01-24 04:45:09 · 14 answers · asked by william f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She probably wants to dispel any impression that you might get that she has feelings for you, or may be looking to prevent those feelings from manifesting in herself, so she acts unattached & distant. Either way, she's making a concious effort to not rekindle anything.
2007-01-24 04:49:03 · answer #1 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since we don't know the back round and what really happened, one can only speculate why she is treating you like a stranger. If you love her then you need to look deep inside and figure out the best reasonable way to get her back in your life. But then again, maybe she has already moved on and in that case you should do the same.
So I think the reason she acts like your a stranger is to push you away. She might need her space but a few months should be enough space I would think. Time will tell her intentions, but if you know you did something wrong the first step is to admit to her that you were wrong and that your willing to do anything in the world to make things right. I bet if you hit the lotto she would be there kicking your door down begging you to come back in her life.
Really most woman these days want you to spend or want to spend every second with you. Instead of playing video games or wanting to play a brand new video game she wants you to want to play with her(pay attention to her) then when she is busy doing something then you have free time to go play your new game or do what ever. Understand???
Woman are complicated and after 11years of marriage I keep running into the same issues. Take some time and talk with her to see how you can work this out.
I hope this helps, and good look.
2007-01-24 05:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by HipHop 24/7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is always around someone she is dating and while you are calling she has to give the other guy the impression that it is over.... She may be a little iritated that you still call and instead of saying please stop calling she answers with an attitude to give you the hint but you are not taking it likely.... WOMEN dont like to be stalked....... in other words leave her alone and if she is calling and being nice sometimes and other times being mean let the chic go!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-24 04:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by Lela T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
or maybe u need to realize shes an ex and she doesnt give a sh*t how she talks to you. you sound stupid man im sorry she broke up with you she talks to you like ur a stranger and your only question is does she need more time. u need to take a clue and stop calling her and even talking to her. it doesnt matter if you still love her shes done with you and ur missing the boat
2007-01-24 04:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by rodie5582 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but it sounds to me like shes already met someone. The best thing you can do is move on and look for happiness elsewhere. Her Loss will be anothers gain.. Good Luck
2007-01-24 04:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's trying to keep the distance between you. For her, it's over. It doesn't matter that you still love her; she's being civil. It's not reasonable for you to think that she would continue to communicate with you the way she was when you were together.
Leave her alone so you can heal and get on with your life.
2007-01-24 04:56:08 · answer #6 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how the breakup went, she may feel uncomfortable around you. Or she may feel uneasy because she knows you still love her. There's always going to be feelings for a person that you were very close with.
2007-01-24 04:50:57 · answer #7 · answered by Alisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just needs time. there's going to be an aqwardness between you twe because it's kinda hard to break up with someone. I'm not saying that she doesnt want to be friends she just wants to just take it really slow and to take time and not just be friends right away she wants to work up ur relationship.
2007-01-24 04:50:04 · answer #8 · answered by Min 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you become ex's, it is usually a good idea to become strangers, and that is usually the point of becoming an ex.
2007-01-24 04:49:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE MAY NEED TIME OR SHE ALREADY HAS SOMEBODY ELSE IT IS NOT EASY FOR A WOMAN TO BE FRIENDS WITH SOMEONE SHE WAS IN LOVE WITH AT ONE POINT OR NOT EVEN LOVE JUST SOMETHING SPECIAL, GIVE HER TIME OR STOP TALKING TO HER YOU DONT NEED TO BE TREATED THAT WAY MAN
2007-01-24 04:49:38 · answer #10 · answered by onehottfem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋