Does this mean she is in love?
I have been dating this woman for 3 weeks now and we have a great time together. Last night after I dropped her off at her place and went back home, I got this text message from her "Thank you for all that you are to me, you have been nothing but a blessing".
What do you guys think? I mean I like her alot and we both have feelings for one another but I dont want to be jumping to any conclusions.
2007-01-24 04:41:58 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girls normally have inhibitions. they expect boys to take initiative. please express what you have in your mind and tell her that you are loving her.if she loves, she will certainly express her opinions. do not postpone conveying your feelings. wish you all the best.
2007-01-24 04:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, it does NOT mean that she's 'in love' with you. I think that she is just VERY POLITE and wanted to thank you just for 'being you' ... but I am also thinking that you need to have a 'long and serious talk' about whether or not your 'belief systems' work together (the 'hint' is in her saying 'you have been nothing but a blessing.') and see if you can't come to a MUTUAL decision on 'where this relationship is headed.'
I KNOW that sounds 'really old fashioned' at 'this point' in your relationship, but I also KNOW that it 'works' and think that it is BEST FOR BOTH OF YOU to be 'on the same page' ... and 'thank you' from me for not 'staying the night with her' or for 'complaining' because you haven't had sex with her yet. A GOOD RELATIONSHIP needs 'time to form' and having sex too early can 'cut that formation' off ... and if there comes a time when you can't or simply don't want sex as much any more, you'll NEED that 'good friendship' or the relationship could CRASH IN FLAMES. I've been 'married to' my BEST FRIEND for the past ten years now, because we did have that 'talk' ... and maybe 'this' is your 'one woman' and maybe she's not ... but you can't ever know unless you have that SERIOUS TALK.
2007-01-24 04:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think just because of the text message it means shes in LOVE. She's just probably very happy to be with you. Maybe there's something going on in her life and you really helped her out with it and not even know it. I think the text message just means that she appreciates everything you do for her and she's like the luckiest person to have a person like that i her life.
2007-01-24 04:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by Dancer06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...it depends on the following:
-her previous relationship(s).
if she was hurt by her ex(s) and she suffered like a dog, maybe she is just enjoying the time with you....peaceful, careless, funny...in this case, she might still need some time....to get used to you and to fall in love.
-your relationship.
it`s possible that she might consider you just the best friend ever...for offering her a great time and for listening her.
Nevertheless, good news: it might be simply love! maybe this is the way she`s expressing her feelings..even though, in my humble opinion, women prove their feelings not by pretty "formal" and not very personalized text messages...but by other small adorable things ( an unexpected kiss in the middle of the street, glowing and smiling all the time with you..).but, if you already shared this kind of "things", definitely you are in love!
hope it helps. good luck! :)
2007-01-24 04:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica Rabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if she really enjoys the time spent with you and could be leading to very strong feelings, possibly love. You are right in not wanting to assume. Take things slow, enjoy your time with her. You will see in good time if it turns out to be love. Too soon to tell, people could feel "love in the air" from having a good time, but time will tell if the feeling is real. Give time for love to grow! Best wishes!
2007-01-24 04:52:10 · answer #5 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump to conclusions. She could have just had an amazing time and she appreciates how you treat her. She sounds like she's very into you, but only time will tell if she's in love.
2007-01-24 04:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by Alisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think her message means she is in love but rather she is grateful for your company at this point and is enjoying the time she spends with you. Give it time to grow and develop. It could be the start of a lasting relationship though.
2007-01-24 04:46:02 · answer #7 · answered by Dariana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she didn't say she loves you then don't jump just yet.
Tell her that you are thankful that you can be what she needs and that she is a blessing to have around.
I think she probably wrote it to see how you'd respond back. Careful, it may be a test.
2007-01-24 04:50:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in this text message to me sound like she tries to say thank you for everything that you did for her that day. And it doesn't really sound like that she was in love. I mean, this message could mean a lot of different things.
2007-01-24 04:47:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 weeks is too short time to understand anyone and you understand someone enough it's not possible to love him. Seems like she likes you at this stage of the game but love is altogether a different thing. You should limit your expectations at this stage of the game.
2007-01-24 04:49:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly... only she really knows! it does sound more though like you have helped her in someway... was she in a bad relationship before?? Youve obviously been good to her, in some way! but 3 weeks is very early to know if you love someone!... its certainly looking good for you... Congratulations... and good luck for the future!
2007-01-24 04:48:01 · answer #11 · answered by Lily Allen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋