2007-01-24 04:05:20 · 38 answers · asked by sebele 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find a better man.
2007-01-24 04:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to leave him, he has no respect for you whatsoever. It is extremely hard for someone to cheat on you once but once is enough and it only becomes easier for them to do it. You keep taking him back and he will know he can get away with it.
I have a friend who was in the same situation for 2 years and we used to tell her the same. She said it wasn't that simple as she really loved him and was frightened of being alone. I don't know if this is how you are feeling? Eventually he cheated on her with someone who wanted a relationship and left her anyway so she still ended up without him. She is now with a lovely guy who adores her and she is so happy and completely changed - her only regret is not leaving him sooner. I know things are hard if you depend on your man for money or you have kids together but you need to let go and find someone new. Good luck xx
2007-01-24 04:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by Olivia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That isn't love sorry to tell you, that´s pure selfishness. How can he even look at you and tell you he loves you. Dump his cheating @ss asap. He is only playing with you and perhaps he knows that because you love him so much you will forgive him over and over again. H e isn't respecting you and treating you the way you should be treated. Get some confidence and break it off. You deserve better than that. Value yourself more...How is that even a relationship. Think about yourself, The damage that he is causing both physically and mentally. He is hurting you and don't you ever worry that he can infect you with some STD. He can tell you he loves you million times but his actions say it all.Please before its too late get rid of him.
2007-01-24 04:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loved you he wouldn't hurt you by going out with other women. He may think he does but he dosn't know the meaning of the word. He only cares about his needs and not yours, this isn't love. You can do better, you don't deserve to be treated like this. This must crush your confidence every time he does this. No woman should be treated this way. My advice would be to break up with this guy. If he had done it once perhaps it was a mistake, but the fact that he continues to do it suggests he thinks he can get away with it and can butter you up by saying he loves you. He only cares about himself, so forget him and look after yourself and future.
2007-01-24 04:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by harvestmoon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its not easy to just to let go of someone you love very deeply.
But it is not a healthy relationship. He will always be a cheater.
He says he loves you but goes with other women. He knows you will always forgive him and take him back. Even thought its hard girl let go and don't look back it will hurt for a while, but you will find someone who will treat you better and really love you.
You will get to the point that you will start hating him and realize how dumm you were for staying.
2007-01-24 04:16:26 · answer #5 · answered by Christina L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave. Why would you wanna be with a man who clearly doesnt give a sht about you or your feelings.
By staying you are basically part of the problem: he knows that if he will cheat you will stick around, as it has happened in the past, so why bother? I know it sounds hard, but sometimes people are [art of the problems they struggle with.
That doesnt mean I dont feeel sorry for you, as I do. But girl: you need to take care of your oown happiness. other people will not create your happiness, they can only contribute to it.
2007-01-24 04:18:38 · answer #6 · answered by MM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget the "i love you" b/c people say it aaaaal the time. u should be concerned if he's going out w/ another woman b/c he is a man & it doesnt take much for things 2 get heated between the two of them when they continuously spending time together. this is how it starts.they're probably already sexin' on the side. start going out w/ another man & then tell him " i love you" & see how he likes it. then let him know how bad he makes you feel when he does this.men cheat all the time w/out second thought.
2007-01-24 04:11:32 · answer #7 · answered by Johnnie's cash🌴🌙☂✈ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him!! If he is continually "going with other women" then you need to cut your losses and get out of the relationship before he brings home some STD or worse to you. Someone that loves you wouldn't be cheating on you and wouldn't be putting your health at risk. Seriously, get rid of him now!! Good luck to you!
2007-01-24 04:13:31 · answer #8 · answered by blueidgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you. It's for sure. I don't know what keeps you in the relationship but please don't be a stupid for a long time. What do you have that keeps him coming back? Have you given up yourself to him in an intimate relationship? If not, good for you. Maybe that's what keeps him from not leaving you. But if you have, then one day you'll find he's gone.
Don't be afraid of losing this kind of guy. He's not worth any amount of true love in its real sense.
2007-01-24 04:19:10 · answer #9 · answered by Grace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a person loves you they do not cause you pain. What he is doing is not love because that is not what love is. Love is a word that is used loosely here and is only being used to keep you in your place.
If it was love you would feel affection, cared for, joy in your heart consideration, you would be happy most of all you would feel loved.
2007-01-24 06:14:59 · answer #10 · answered by smiler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just using you babe, i hope that didnt sound too harsh. But if he loves you he would not cheat on you. He would love and respect you.
You are too good for him love, find someone who would love, respect and treat you better.
Dont let that guy use you anymore and i know it will be hard to move on but you have your friends there to support you.
Take care and good luck
2007-01-24 04:20:59 · answer #11 · answered by Playful~Beauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋