would he cheat on me just like he did to his other girlfriends?

Question

i have been with my boyfriend for months now. and i have known him for years. when he was seeing some girl i was happy for him because i thought she keeped him happy but in the middle of their relationship he would cheat on her, i would get up set and tell him to at least break up with his girl so he wouldn't really be cheating on her. he keep cheating on at least four of his girlfriends after that. its been a year and now he is with me. but im scared that he will cheat on me. what should i do? talk or break up? because i don't want to get hurt like that.

Answer 1

Not to sound hurtful, but the suspicious part of me says: "How do you know he's not already cheating?"

Honestly, once a jerk always a jerk. If he cheated on his priors, he will most likely eventually stray with you as well.

If you're asking my advice, I say: break up now before you find out he's been doing exactly what you fear most.

Answer 2

if someone truely madly loves you they wont cheat unless influenced by other people (friends ect)

definatley talk to him before you break up though coz you might be doing it over nothing. your probly gonna get some people saying 'once a cheater always a cheater' but it doesnt work like that, if you love someone your going to give them a higher level of respect in which case the likely hood is that he wont.

if you can honestly answer yourself that he would hurt as much as you if you cheated on him then i wouldnt even bother talking about it coz you'l just pi22 him off.

Answer 3

That's a tough call. There is a very good chance that eventually he will cheat on you. You can talk to him about it, but I don't think that will stop him. If you truly don't want to get hurt, I would break up with him and move on. Sorry.

Answer 4

just don't get too hung up on him.

He will likely cheat on you.

I am sure you have heard the expression, once a cheater always a cheater.

However, don't do anything drastic until you know for sure he has cheated on you. Also, if you are having unprotected sex with him, you should be tested and insist that he be tested as well.

Answer 5

If he's cheated on his last 4 g/f's what makes you think he's going to change. He prolly has already cheated on you. Like the saying goes "you can't teach an old dog new tricks." My advise is to just leave him. You can do better than that.

Answer 6

Bad Habits are hard to break. Talk to him find out why he is the way he is and what is the reason for it. What does he want to accomplish by being a cheat.

Answer 7

Sorry to tell you, once a cheater always a cheater. Someone who cheats has no regard for the other person's feelings and doesn't care about the consequences. He cheats to make himself feel better.

Answer 8

unless he is ready to get marryed to you ,i would say if he cheated one you once the odds are higher, that he will do it again, often they say once a cheater always a cheater unless her grow up. dose he paly golf at night. go bowl and never shows your his bowling score, if not then he,s scorning on a nother girl.dose it take two hours to by a pop down the street if so then he,s with another girls.if you evercauch him cheat leave him then, you need a man who what,s only you in he,s life not jest a bed warmer.

Answer 9

Unfortunately, if he cheated on her he will likely cheat on you, too.

If you don't want to get hurt you need to make up your mind that it will happen eventually or make plans to be with someone else when that person comes along.

Answer 10

My motto has always been "once a cheater always a cheater". The sad thing is that you knew what he was really like all this time. Ask yourself if you want to take that chance and maybe think about sitting down and speaking to him about it. But it sounds like you have your suspicions, you really need to think about it and see if you really trust him.