why is it..............?

Question

that celebs came out so succesful and other average dont. like me. ever since i was a kid i new what i was going to be a castudian (cleaner) which i am right now. my family could never afford college so i new that i did not have the chance to be succesful. being a loner as a kid made me feel like a loser. which i am now.

Answer 1

you should start by changing the why you think of yourself...i am a house wife and i know what it means to be a cleaner..its hard work...did you know that someone that cleans lets say houses for a living does the same amount of work that 2 fulltime jobs require....you can be anything if you put your mind to it , but first you must start loving yourself first...if you dont love yourself then no-one will...start by saying it to yourself ..things like "I'm so bloody sexy it hurts" or "its a shame that this brain of mine must rot one day" you'll see....
be positive about yourself, and others will start seeing you

Answer 2

Man, dude, you need some serious therapy. I am very concerned about you! People succeed because they choose to succeed. You can still become a success if you try. It sounds like someone told you that you were a loser at a young age, and you have believed that ever since. Well, it's just not true! I know things seem pretty bad to you right now, but if you will seek some counseling to deal with your low self esteem and choose something you want to accomplish and go do it, you'll start feeling better about yourself. You are not a bad person, you have had some bad stuff happen to you so please take this advice and help yourself feel better. You can get counseling from many sources, some at no cost to you so don't let money get in the way. Start by talking to your priest or pastor or whoever your clergyperson is.

Answer 3

I've dealt with personal failure for a long time but sometimes someone or someting changes your whole life. don't give up hope no-one is a loser - we all have value