when we first started talking (online) he seemed to be totally into me, and I got someone to fingure out why he stopped calling me: I asked too many odd questions/he was annoyed by me.
ugh, so now he's dating a new girl and has written a blog about how much their week-long worth convos have changed his life and hes happier now.
I'm afraid; what if I can never have that same effect on a guy? I'm 19.
2007-01-24 03:40:42 · 9 answers · asked by kellz8706 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look hun don't worry about it, I know your hurting. Its like you knew for sure he liked you and he comes up with this. Some guys are like that. Perhaps he didn't like your personality, is he the only men or earth? NO..Besides why would you want a guy like that? H e didn't have the courage to tell you how he felt..I assume you haven't even met him personally, he cant tell for sure how you really are.Don't worry there will be Another guy who will like your odd questions and wont find you annoying, just don't think its the end of the world or there is something wrong with you. In this world of diversity I'm sure there is a guy out there for you..Don't rush it, sooner or later you will find one.
2007-01-24 03:56:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be stressing out about this. It's better to find out now that he's not into you than after you've invested a lot of time (and emotion) into a relationship. My experience has been that on line "relationships" allow people to put themselves out there because it's pretty anonymous. But when you meet, sometimes the on line chemistry doesn't match with the three-dimensional reality.
Stop torturing yourself . It's not going to make you feel better. Besides...you only dated him twice. If you have another on line adventure, treat it as you would a "normal" relationship: get to know the person; don't be in a hurry and force an emotional connection. Take it as a lesson learned and move on.
2007-01-24 03:51:23 · answer #2 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts and its probably gona hurt for awhile, but try and go find someone else... if you two were meant to be together it would have happened and he wouldnt have been a jerk about it. Just go out and try to meet new people. I hope that helps a little. I just got off a relationship so i know how you feel. As hopeless as the situation seems you will find that special guy who wont be a jerk to you like that.
2007-01-24 03:54:16 · answer #3 · answered by my spill canvas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts because it indicates that, from his perspective, you weren't "good enough".
There are over 3 billion other men in the world, and as you said, you're only 19. People aren't always right for each other - that's just how it is. Keep looking and you'll find someone you do have that effect on eventually.
2007-01-24 03:45:30 · answer #4 · answered by tfmemnoch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK so maybe u should look at it in a different way , now that u know asking too many Q, was wrong u should work on bettering ur self and try to move on there are so many guy's out there don't let him bother u he isn't worth it !
2007-01-24 03:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by amal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You absolutely cannot get to know a person, honestly, on-line. You need to quit looking for love through a fantasy window and get out in public and meet real people.
2 dates? I see the kid at the grocery store that bags my groceries more often. He does a great job of bagging my groceries, but does that mean we are compatible? I don't think so.
2007-01-24 03:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You went out with him twice. You need to go out and meet some people outside of the internet. Normal people who have lives away from their computers. Go to a disco or nightclub and meet someone and go on a date and get to know the person that way
2007-01-24 03:45:05 · answer #7 · answered by traceylill 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
very confusing matter. search into a search engine. that will may help!
2014-12-03 19:10:18 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the answers abouve.Good luck!!it will be ok.
2007-01-24 03:46:22 · answer #9 · answered by keiihci morisato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋