He used to let me see his phone all the time, now he won't even let me touch it. I saw some messages from this girl at his job that were really inappropriate, and his responses were also out of line. He tells me they're just good friends... And lately he's been leaving school early without me. His friends tell me that I have nothing to worry about because he's crazy about me, but I can't shake this feeling! Am I just being suspicious for no reason?
2007-01-24 03:30:16 · 16 answers · asked by teenagemillionaire89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately, a guy can be crazy about you and still cheat. Sometimes they don't know how to choose, so they try to have everything at once.
If you don't mind, that's one thing. But it really seems like you do. If you think he's hiding sometime, he probably is -- and it's all about what you are willing to put up with.
No relationship will last without honesty, so tell him how you feel. Tell him he needs to lose the shady behavior and the flirty texts, or he's gonna lose his lady.
Good luck!
2007-01-24 03:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by mistaken4sane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be suspicious. I have kinda been there before but I was the girl sending the inappropriate responses. So I think he is up to no good.
2007-01-24 03:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kinda sounds like what a guy would do if he was cheating.. I'm pretty sure he is.. I wouldn't worry about it.. only losers cheat.. you don't won't to be with a loser.. his friends probably covering for him to.. I had to do that a couple of times for my friends.. you should ask his new friend at work if they really are good friends or if something is going on.. I would.. Save me the time and humiliation..
2007-01-24 03:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by crazgrss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure he's cheating on you. The way you found that about the nasty comments in the cell phone he's up to something. You should found out who that girl is and ask her if you're interesting in him, but don't let her know ya two are going out though.
2007-01-24 03:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by bootylover300 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every woman has a gut feeling that lets them know if something isn't quite right, follow that feeling because if you have to ask this question, then deep in your heart you already know the answer. Good Luck!
2007-01-24 03:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by curious george 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a frank discussion with him about Polyamory. You're young and there's no reason for either of you to be tied down to just one person. That said, there's also no reason that the two of you can't be together on whatever terms you agree to.
2007-01-24 03:44:20 · answer #6 · answered by Mike M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are that worried have 1 of your friends follow him
is it right??No but at least stop being suspicious
2007-01-24 03:34:09 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he's cheating. Grow some common sense.
2007-01-24 03:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you've answered your own question...sounds like something is definitely wrong here...think maybe his friends are covering for him?? They always do ya know!! Again....where there is smoke, there is fire....and I am definitely seeing some smoke here...
2007-01-24 03:36:06 · answer #9 · answered by ohkathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are he is cheating. I mean, 70% of guys cheat and thats probably a low figure , so my guess is that he is.
2007-01-24 03:34:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋