things have been complicated with my ex-girlfriend lately. we've been broken up for almost a year now. she currently has a boyfriend. she told me 3 days ago that she misses me as her boyfriend and kissed me. well, i don't know what to make of that since she is still with her current boyfriend. anyway, we're going to orlando next weekend because i won the airline tickets. unfortunatly we get in saturday night and leave early monday morning. though we're just going as friends and she's even been specific about two beds. she's stressed that she doesn't want to cheat on her bf, though she kinda already did obviously. honestly i dont think she likes him that much but i could be wrong. i know they fight a lot. well, i can't help but think i have to at least try to do something to see if i can get her back, especially after what she told me 3 days ago. any ideas?she's never even been to florida and i'm pretty much hoping that she'll just be having fun and will almost forget about her bf.
2007-01-24 03:23:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well its too late not to take her. also she didn't know, we planned on going monday. maybe she is just using me.
2007-01-24 03:47:34 · update #1
and her current bf is a deadbeat, 27, divorced, kids, hardly pays for her, always drinks and does drugs, calls her every 5 mins whenever she hangs out with me ....probably why she lied and told him she's going to FL with her girl friend. real commitment.
2007-01-24 03:50:04 · update #2
How bad is it going to hurt her if she is serious about her current boyfriend and what your doing is a waste of time.. you should just go as friends and just have fun.. But hey, if she makes the moves or gives you any hints while your there, just roll with it.. It might actually work out between you two.. Just don't hate her if she says no to you.. you still have her as a friend and that's good..
2007-01-24 03:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by crazgrss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she know about the tickets before she kissed u or after. Cuz if she knew about the tickets before she kissed u, then she is only playing u for a fool. Like u said she has never been to Florida and maybe she is just looking for a scapegoat in order to get away from her b/f. Do u think that she would honestly tell him that she is going away for the weekend with her ex.
Frankly what i think is that u shod just let her go and move on cuz u only gona get hurt more cuz she doesn't even want to sleep in the same bed with u so is it she misses u, i don't understand. Jus move on!!
2007-01-24 03:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by bootygirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It looks like she's just weighing her options. Kind of like she know's she's got you in the palm of her hands. Let's see how far we'll go... Don't fall for the "two beds" She's going to jump your bones after a few drinks and you're going to be all awkward about it the next day. Then she'll be right back with her boyfriend and pretend it didn't happen. But now you are officially her ex-booty call. My personal favorite. Have a blast and take it for what it's worth. Have fun.
2007-01-24 03:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by Ana M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have taken your mom instead. The woman isn't worth winning back. If she wants to get back with you, it sounds like it's because her current relationship is not going well and/or she needs the ego boost. Really, don't even try to win her back. It isn't worth it, even if you could manage to win her back. And if she would cheat on her boyfriend that she has now, don't you think she would cheat on you too? She isn't worth your trouble, man. It's too late to back out of the plan, but you should have asked almost anyone to go with you instead of her. Your best friend would have been a much better choice. An attractive near-stranger would have been a better choice too, I think. But since you already mentioned taking this woman, go along with it as planned. I don't think it would be a good idea to take this one back. It's generally a bad idea to take back an ex, but it's even worse with this kind of behavior. Good luck!
2007-01-24 03:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out while you can. Some women think it's ok to keep men on a string while they decide who they want to land. Ultimately she'll drop both of you for the next guy to enter the scene.
It's not that she cares for you - not one bit. It's about her feeling insecure, keeping you as a backup, using your affections to boost her own ego and make her feel like she has the power.
Take a guy friend... who knows, you might have a chance to hook up in Orlando, and if you're with the "just friends" chick, she'll blow it for you!! If you do take her - flirt a bit with other girls, watch her reaction - $10 says she gets catty!!
2007-01-24 03:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by makboz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. You cannot win her back.
She's using you as her trump card should her current relationship go down the drain, unless she really truly desires to be only your friend and nothing else (but she says she misses you as her bf, so that throws the "friend" card out of the water).
As long as one of you have some type of those feelings, you can't really be just friends...
Let her go dude. Seriously. All you're doing is setting yourself up for more pain...
2007-01-24 03:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by Fuh Q. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're the d*ck in a glass case....Always there just incase her and the current boyfriend don't work out.
Don't take the backburner--Get out.
2007-01-24 03:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by keepmynameoutchamouth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a safety net....let her go!!!
2007-01-24 03:26:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋