What would you do if ... ???

Question

A~ Your husband leaves you,
B~ Your dog dies by a speeding car in front of your house,
C~ and Your child comes down with a severe case of pneumonia?

1* Do you let go of your husband, hurt for a time, then move on?
2* Do you grieve a while for you pet & know everything happens for a reason?
3* Do you simply care for your child, praying for his healing & know God is only allowing it as a test of your faith in God?
4* Do you Blame God for a while?
5* Do you turn from any faith in Him and call His love, grace & mercy all bunk?
6* Do you not believe in Him, so you just go with the flow and hope for something better?
7* Or do you do something else?

If wish to choose one or more answers, you can simply cut & paste them into your answer. This will save you time of typing them out.
Blessings, Love & Peace 2 U All !!!

Answer 1

I have no idea what I would do. Thank God I havent had to go through any of those things, but I would hope that God would give me strength to get through any situation.

God says he will never give me more than I can handle, and I believe him cause he hasnt yet!

Answer 2

Allow me to answer your questions one by one.
A. If your husband left you, there must be a reason or reasons for doing such. The couple should first exhaust all possible ways of reconciling any differences they have. I'm a person who value family relationships and I wouldn't give up my husband readily especially when I love him so much as I do right now. I believe that all true love is worth fighting for just like our God who never gave up on us even if we do sin almost everyday of our lives. But if after all things were done and he still leaves you, then let him go. The important thing is that you have shown him how much you love him. This is something he will never forget and I'm sure there'll come a time he'll regret leaving you.

B. This is almost similar to having one of your loved ones die in front of you. It is also hard to get over the thought of losing your favorite pet. There's nothing wrong in grieving over the death of your pet but it should not keep you from doing your other responsibilities. Anything happens in this world, but not all of them are because of a reason. Some could be, but some may simply be because of negligence on our part or incompetence on the part of the driver. But we cannot simply view what happened as a punishment or a trial. What God wants to see in us is our attitude towards every circumstances that befalls our lives. He wants us to depend on Him for strength and guidance which He will surely provide for us.

C. These three situations are all part of the usual problems that any individual encounters in this life. Cancer is the most dreaded disease that none us would want to happen to any member of our family. I witnessed a case which involved a child who has an illness more severe than pneumonia. But the faith and trust of the family has resulted to a miracle that no doctors could explain. Who knows the ways of God? No one I'm sure but whatever the outcome is, our faith and trust should remain in Him who loves us all and knows what is best for us. God bless.

Answer 3

First, take the child to the doctor. Medicine can work, prayer can't.

Second, get over your husband and move on (after getting a judgment for child support). People can be nasty but not all of them are. Find someone else.

Third, keep any new pets inside or in a fenced yard. The world is a dangerous place for animals who don't know what a street is.

Fourth, don't blame yourself, blame god if you want to, mostly blame your husband, the driver of the car, and germs. Religion can help some people some times. However, it can't change your circumstances. Only you and the rest of the world can do that. Which brings me to . . .

Fifth, act. Life it up to you. Make the best of it.

Good luck.

Answer 4

I'm sorry that you have to face so many issues at once but your child comes first so i would simply be there for him, pray to God that he'll be OK and focus on that for now. I'd also let go of my husband knowing that I'll be OK without him even if i hurt for a while.
Everything does happen for a while and yes sometimes it's a test of faith so don't blame God for he will always be there to carry your burden when it becomes to heavy or you simply don't have the strength to carry on much longer. No matter what never lose faith in God and if your husband decides to come back, great but if not that's OK too. You will find the strength to move on in time.
You can always get another pet if you want, grieve over him later, for now just focus on that little boy and your faith. Just know that you will be OK no matter what.
I wish you the best of luck and will pray for you and that little boy.

Answer 5

1. Why did he leave you? Is he worth trying to save the marriage?
2.Tragic , I would hope the driver stopped and said some kind words to you, or to assist you with your dog.
3.Your child is very important to seek medical help to prevent your child from further complications. You need prayers and comfort at this time.
4.No God is not the blame. Keep your faith to carry you through this difficult time, and your family is important also to be a part of your problems.
5.Never ever blame or turn away from our God. He does not want us to suffer needlessly.Place your life and problems in prayer.I will also pray for you and your family.
6.I would never have gotten through life without him. I have had allot of tragedies to over come in my life. Prayer with God has made me a stronger person to face each day a better person.
7. I could never turn my back on God. God didn't make the mistakes or deaths in my family.I only hope you and your family will be able to find peace and happiness through God with the problems you now are facing. Best of luck in finding your way.

Answer 6

God does not cause suffering. We have suffering because Adam sinned.
Things happen because of the imperfection, and death Adam gave us as an inheritance. This is why husbands leave, why dogs die in front of speeding cars. And why children get sick, and sometimes die. I have a hope in something much better, the resurrection, I will see all my loved ones who have passed away. I will live a better life in the new system, where all wickedness and those who do it will be done away with. Psalm 37

Answer 7

1* Do you let go of your husband, hurt for a time, then move on?
2* Do you grieve a while for you pet & know everything happens for a reason?
3* Do you simply care for your child, praying for his healing & know God is only allowing it as a test of your faith in God?


Love xx

Answer 8

Been there done that for a few of those situations and my answer is ...
I pull myself up by my bootstraps and get through it. Putting my faith in the intangible and hoping that things just get better is like spitting in the wind. Not the smartest course of action; it tends to come back on me. The only thing that I have learned that I can depend on is ME. Hope is a good concept but action is what works.

To quote a silly sign I saw a while back "Put on your Big Girl Panties and Deal with It."

Answer 9

A: #1 but seek revenge before moving on,lol
B: Grieve, bury my pet before my kids see him, call the police on the speeding car.
C: #7, seek medical treatment ASAP, pray and plead, do what ever I have to do to ensure full recovery

Answer 10

3* Do you simply care for your child, praying for his healing & know God is only allowing it as a test of your faith in God?