im in a relationship now but,im not happy at all, i im to the point wherw i have almost gave up on finding anyone who can make me happy.
2007-01-24 03:03:48 · 11 answers · asked by sweetandjuicy35 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are not happy in this relationship, then get out... go see a professional to build your self asteam.. but if you are looking to have a relationship that has no bumps in the road...you may never find love. life is not easy and if shouldn't be, we learn from everything that's not right in the world, if it was perfect it would be boring!!!
2007-01-24 03:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by dthsmx5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not happy in the relationship you're in now, then get out. Life's too short to be spending your time with someone who doesn't really stoke your fire...and it's not fair to your partner either. Have you ever tried online dating? A lot of people make fun of it, but sometimes it can work and it's a great place to meet people (I'm living proof). Try Match.com or Yahoo! Personals or if you're really serious about finding that other half, eHarmony is a little more advanced. Also, try getting out and doing some different activities or hobbies where you can meet others. Good luck!
2007-01-24 03:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by spyhopper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is work. it doesnt just oh pop up and every thign is cool. to keep love its sacrifice and alot of other work. you have to give to get.most people think you fall in love and stay for ever, well if you dont work on it no ya dont. you may not pick whp you fall for but you do decide to stay with them, and isnt it better whne both sides iz happy. so i guess true love would bieng able to find tht happy medium in between break up and make up. lotta work, you willing to comprimise and sacrifice some things in order for the greater of the whole? then ya you'll find it, if no then nope you'll die old and cranky from lack of nookie.
2007-01-24 03:13:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes off course, if you really want it!!! here is the secret i was the same way, i gave up. all my relationships were the same old thing so i gave it a rest/give up. Before you know it the right one will find you. Then you'll also know wat true love is and wat youve been missin out on. Dat relationship youre currently in is already a waste. True love has you happy at every moment even through good and bad times. The break is really eworth it. 3months did oit for me. find yours
2007-01-24 03:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually i find that since i got into my forties i know what kind of guy i want (which i have been told dont excist) i search high and low for him but cant find him, settled for others but cant be happy so i am still alone and think the same exact thing you do. i think we should maybe give alittle to get alittle. i am willing to try this so i am over looked a fault in this guy who likes me, who knows i do really like him wait and see.
2007-01-24 03:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by crystal b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. You have to make yourself happy. Your happiness is not the responsibility of someone else. We attract what we give. If you give love, are upbeat and positive, all of those things will come to you. Open your heart and give.
2007-01-24 03:16:55 · answer #6 · answered by shoes_717 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, wolfman that was rude, but of course you will find it, have you been looking? Is there someone you're interested in? If you are tell them, it's either now or never hun!
2007-01-24 03:11:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be happy with your self.look good and love your man he will love you back,you cant find love if you dont show love.goodluck
2007-01-24 03:13:27 · answer #8 · answered by Erniebassey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in luck as I just got off the phone with miss Cleo adn I asked her for you.
She stated true love is not in your cards
sorry for the bad news
2007-01-24 03:07:40 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I could go into great detail and give you a long answer on this question.
However I get the feeling you need a simple answer and that answer would be......................................................... maybe.
Of course that answer could be a bit overly optimistic.
2007-01-24 03:12:05 · answer #10 · answered by icbinr 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋