I have been in two relationships so far and the second one is still going on. My first gf kinda drifted away from me by avoiding me because she kinda lost the feel for it. But somehow she was deeply in love with me from the start. The second girl has also liked me for a long time and we just got together. However she is also slowly avoiding me (*or i just feel it that way beacause of the first girl). What should i do.....please help me.
2007-01-24 02:51:24 · 8 answers · asked by Kingpass 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can relate a lot because i'm on my second also, you have to do a lot of soul searching, for you like what am I, who am I, and where am I going! most of all what am I doing mwrong, but there's also the fact is it you? or maybe you have chosen the wrong mates. I have thought about all this stuff. the best thing for me is to talk to as many people as possible, family and so om, therapy whatever it takes, and hopefully somewhere along the way you might just bump into the real you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-24 02:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by WURSTNGHTMARE61 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off u have 2 stop being so insecure about life. I know that a previous relationship can harm the next one but that is bad. U have 2 put the past behind u and move on 2 ur present life. U r being paranoid and it's getting in ur way. If u feel she is avoiding u then y don't u sit down and talk 2 her and make sure everything is ok. Maybe something is bothering her and she doesn't know how 2 tell u. Do u ever stop and think maybe she has problems of her own that she keeps bottled up inside. Good luck and stop being so paranoid.
2007-01-24 10:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it is insecurity talking! sure can get the best of us sometimes> slow down, have fun, laugh and enjoy each other. It sounds a little like you are taking things way too serious. Maybe you are scaring her?? Keep it simple and remember to be your self . Go out with a group of friends, this takes some of the pressure off of all the serious stuff!!! Good luck!!!
2007-01-24 11:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by hillbilly wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just think a certain way because you've been hurt before and you're just overreacting. So just spend more time with her etc and maybe you'll see that she's not trying to avoid you. She could have a serious secret going on with her.
2007-01-24 10:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by Jamie P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its tough to keep passion going. You have to be creative, and seduce her over and over. Part of the problem might be a lack of direction. She needs to see a future with you--you don't need to propose, but make it look like you are headed that way. You could have problems with yourself that you need to fix--are you lazy, boring, annoying or something?
Do some fun stuff together--get out of the usual routine.
2007-01-24 11:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are brining your baggage from your old relationship into your new one. I think you should take it slow, and make sure you don't get ahead of yourself. If she's returning your feelings and enthusiasm about the relationship then there is nothing to worry about.
2007-01-24 10:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i think u need to really recollect urself and trhen think deeply that what is it that u do which drives woman away from u,oe else this can be repeating itself with every relationship
2007-01-24 10:56:40 · answer #7 · answered by monalisa three 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide who makes you feel better?
2007-01-24 10:55:38 · answer #8 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋