My husband has Heart problems and diabities, and on top of that a pace Maker. He also had a little scare with Cancer this year. He is fine now witht eh cancer but with all the other health problems he well lets just say he can get it up but after 1 min. of foreplay it pops off and is gone. I love him and i would never cheat o leave him but my question is what can i do to get over the sexual fustration. He dosn't want to talk about it and he knows i have toys but he acts like everything is normal. He gets his but when it comes to my turn he turns and walks away and is bright red in the face. What do I DO? HELP
2007-01-24 02:12:31 · 6 answers · asked by Ladydew 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
If your husband has heart problems, a pace maker and other disabilities I assume he has a doctor. Although his doctor might not be able to tell you anything specific, you could tell him what is going on (likely your husband has not told the doctor) so that he can visit with your husband...or both of you together about it. MG
2007-01-24 02:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by Morning Gloria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the heart problem goes some depression...bp meds plays a part in this...sometimes a bit longer foreplay but it will probably go limp...bp meds can be adjusted for this problem...call and talk to a nurse at the cardiologist office...they hear this a lot...
2007-01-24 10:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by Patches6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both need to talk about it and then go see a doctor together. This might not be physical after all. Or, may be the doctor might prescribe something that would help and yet not affect his heart or diabetes.
2007-01-24 10:22:07 · answer #3 · answered by Princess of Egypt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask his doctor about medications to make it last longer. Many times health problems get in the way, and a medication helps. You could take him with you so he doesn't think it's all that unusual.
2007-01-24 10:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by tom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both are frustrated and you need to talk about it. Asking the docs for better meds is a possiblity and also ask what couples do when under this situation.
2007-01-24 10:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats good you wont cheat or leave him... that is hard i dont know. im sorry!
2007-01-24 10:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by Lindsey G 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋