my teenage step son is attracted to me and has attempted to be physical with me. he's a good kid but is in hot pursuit of me. help?
2007-01-24 02:02:52 · 28 answers · asked by b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
need to set this boy straight right now, you could have some serious problems if you dont
2007-01-24 02:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by paki 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Set the boundaries now. Is it possible that you have been giving mixed signals? Consciously or unconsciously? We women enjoy attention and if we are honest, we do not really care where it comes from. You as the adult have to take the first step.
No matter how it may hurt your ego (I am painfully honest), you must address any behaviors which you deem inappropriate immediately. .
2007-01-24 03:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by shoes_717 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly...do you realy need to ask somone for help in this matter.
Tell Him to stop. obviously your not being as firm as you should and if you say hes in " hot pursuit" of you, then maybe your subconciously flirting, no young man would go after his step mom unless this was the case or he has seriouse issues and needs therapy.
2007-01-24 03:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How did he "attempt " to get physical. I mean this question could be so juicy....you left out the good parts like a afternoon ABC special...I mean we are all adults here...for the most part....give us something.
Because OBVIOUSLY the answer is sit and talk with him and his father and if it continues hire a professional therapist.
but seriously...lets spice it a bit. That goes for everyone.
Thanks
2007-01-24 03:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by Answerman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm, this is bad, I heard about a woman in Charleston that was killed over something like this...talk to your husband, and try not to embarrass the boy! This seems very inappropriate, good luck!
2007-01-24 03:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by Whirled Peas 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Teenage boys are attracted to everyone. Stand up and make him understand it's not going to happen.
2007-01-24 02:21:23 · answer #6 · answered by David 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, tell him to back off if you don't like it. If you do like it....ewww!!! Let him know how you feel about it, make it plain and simple. With no room for misinterpretation. If he won't back off then it might be a good idea to get advise from someone else....psychologist, close friend who you can confide in, counsellor, etc.
2007-01-24 02:10:18 · answer #7 · answered by Grant B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tease him. Bend over wearin revealing cloths etc. Then give him a rub and a tug and tell him not to tell his father. Women are secretly worse than men as far as being preverted. Just dont et cuaght.
2007-01-24 02:24:48 · answer #8 · answered by bdat40oz 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I hope you're not asking this with the hopes that someone will tell you to go for it with your stepson. you would be totally betraying your husband and your role as stepmother. I would just be really firm with him and tell him its not going to happen and that if he continues acting this way, you will tell your husband. hopefully, you won't have to. Think hard about whether you'r doing ANYTHING that might be encouraging him. good luck
2007-01-24 02:08:21 · answer #9 · answered by glim 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh... my goodness you must be very attractive then.
You must talk to him. Make your stand clear that you belong to is father and you are a mother to him. If not, you will bring this matter to your husband.
2007-01-24 02:06:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eeek, That must be so awkward for you. Well, I suggest you talk to him about it first, and hope he backs off. If he still insists on getting physical, tell his father.
Good luck with that,
-.-'
2007-01-24 02:08:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋