alot and chased her to get back,,,i just told her how i feel and now she back,,,we are going out on Sun,,,she made me promise that there will be no heavy stuff no sex that's why she's not coming to my house,,,anyway we text each other from morning till night and she allways initiates hot talk like asking me if i would like to take a shower with her,,,,well i'm a man what am i supposed to say no,,,,anyway i want to know why if she want to find out if i want her for her and not for sex why is she winding up with all that sex talk??????
2007-01-24 01:59:29 · 33 answers · asked by DMT 1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's what a ONE night stand is all about. ONE NIGHT! That's it.
2007-01-24 02:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by sarabmw 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
even if she seems to be, she probably isnt confident about herself and needs you to keep letting her know that you want her in a physical or emotional way. The mentality of someone who has low self esteem is to to have one night stands as they have resigned themselves to this being the only way to get physical and emotional attachment as in there mind no one would possibly want them on a long term bases. she may be a very good looking girl but this can be brought on by how a previous boyfriend treated her. she probably fell for the guy and he just used her for sex then dumped her. this unfortunatly is very common. this is from my own experience and could maybe not apply to your situation but if it does i hope it helps and good luck!
2007-01-24 02:11:25 · answer #2 · answered by itzuko3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's trying to seduce you, and if she is the starting to just talk dirty to you but don't do anything, she is probably just a tease, and you dont want anybody like that, but you know what, all women are a little bit like that, just like to tease a lil bit, you sshoul just hang out and see what happens, dont rush into sex maybe she doesnt wnat some
2007-01-24 02:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by katherinep20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not generalising but talking from my personal experience friend. The ones who fringe too much bout not having sex, are usually the ones to take off their clothes the moment u get em into a room
2007-01-24 02:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by tornjeansandguitar 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok.. she is bitchy by mouth, by heart and wait for you to take action. If you go out with her and did not touch her, she will say you don't like her. But if you touch her, she will resist and probably give you a tight slap!
It's a 1 night stand 3 weeks ago and that might shows she likes you or she is easy, you know. She just WANT YOU! So touch her, if she resist then grab her hard, she will melt.
Woman are like that. the more they resist, the more horny they get.
Trust me! I m a woman.
2007-01-24 02:05:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
She had a one stand with u and told u she didn't want to see u again. U go out of ur way to get her to go out with u, why then are u complaining. She is just playing with u get real and let her go.
2007-01-24 02:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by Naughty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes either a tease or shes just seeing how long before you beat your monkey down or begg her for some hot steamy gorilla lovin. if she talks like tht and gets ya all ready for action then just leaves ya hangin, well dump her cause thts some mean crap. blue balls hurt. but i guess its up to you man, live with swollen testies. or go get some.
2007-01-24 02:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a tease. Probably best to move on, she'll probably come chasing after you then. Dont ask me why it works it just does
2007-01-24 02:04:10 · answer #8 · answered by pinklady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because she knows she can, the best thing to do, as you are obviously more mature than her, is to stop texting and look for someone who will treat you with more respect
2007-01-24 09:03:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you have to decide where you see this relationship or whatever it may be going. It seems to me like she is using you for her needs, thats called a sex buddy and someone always gets hurt, sometimes both, beware
2007-01-24 02:05:39 · answer #10 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's all about control my friend. And I would dump her if I were you, it will save you many problems later. Read the Piano Teacher by Elfriede Jelinek and you will know what type of person you are dealing with.
2007-01-24 02:02:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋