How do i look through his phone......?

Question

I sooooooo want to look through my bf's phone, i mean he always always has it on him, i can never go through it.... i want to check to see if he is messing about... Some women rang him the other day, and he said it was his auntie, but he didnt even call her aunty! and he was shaking whilst on the phone. Hes claiming that his aunty (married with 2 children,who i have not met) has been recieving nusiance phone calls from a man, and she wants his help!! but he told me this about 2 months ago!
How can i check his phone, he takes it with him everywhere,even when he goes to the toilet, its driving me mad! any ideas?

BTW, he used look through my phone all the time, he has recently stopped!

Answer 1

Firstly i dont think there is any thing wrong with you going through his phone so ok next time you are out ask him if you can borrow his phone,say you need to call your mum but you battery has gone dead!!Make up a good excuse of why you need to phone her right then and dont give him a chance to delete any thing.Turn your phone off just incase he checks,then try and go to the toilet to call her!Or if he ever has his trousers off,find a sneaky way of getting it out of his pocket and slip it under the bed,then later when he cant find it,just deny all knowledge and then after you have had a chance to look you can tell him you found it under the bed and that it must have fallen out of his pocket!!But seriously if he had nothing to hide he would show you the phone,or if he was doing anything if he had any sense he would delete anything he didnt want you to see and therefore you would never find out!!Good luck x

Answer 2

If you distrust your boyfriend to the point you want to search his phone then it is time to end the relationship. It is not a good idea to go snooping through his personal belongings. If you suspect him of cheating then there is not enough trust in the relationship and without the trust you will never have a long term meaningful, adult relationship with this guy. You could also just ask him to show you his phone...never know maybe he would.

Answer 3

A womans intuition is usually right....... I did this & found texts from another woman, confronted him etc etc, (only 3 months into relationship) still together, & in one way I was glad I did, but on the other hand, 18 months on I still don't trust him, & it has put a shadow on what I thought was a fantastic relationship. Even though he no longer has a phone I constantly wonder - internet, public phones etc, so think carefully, are you prepared for what you might find??????

Answer 4

well what u should do is talk to him first and see wat is going on, or when he goes to sleep then have a look to see wat is going on and if he is telling the truth if it is his auntie or not, (very much doubt it), well if he looked through ur phone then he should let u.

It sounds like he is hiding something from u and he does not want u to find out, it could juts be flirting or a bit of fun, i dnt want to get u worried but it has happened to me,

Just wait till he is a sleep or just take it off him and lock yaself into a room so he cant get in.

Just dnt get to worked up about it, just think posotive not negative and if something is going on then move on plenty more men out there, and u deserve better if he is playing away.

Good luck hope it goes well 4 u hun all the best and take care, xxxx

Answer 5

well looking through his phone is not going to make you feel any better really because if you look through it and he finds out what would you have to say for yourself and that's a real invasion of privacy because what if he looked through yours. You should be able to try and trust the man you label as yours, who wants to be with someone who doesn't trust them? If you feel like its something out of the norm ask him 9 times out of 10 a man is gonna catch him self up in his lies anyway let him tell on his self if he's doing wrong it will come out eventually.l

Answer 6

Don't check his phone just be straight with him. Say you think he is seeing someone else and want to know if you are right. If he denies it say fine you believe him in which case he will not mind if you answer the phone when it rings and will not mind if he only goes out when he is with you for the next 3 months.
see what his reaction is to that. If he rANTS AND RAVES PUT HIS CLOTHES OUTSIDE THE DOOR and refuse to allow him back in. I've notice that the best way to cut an affair short ids to chuck them out as soon as you find out beofre they have had chance for their emotions to take over form the lust.

Answer 7

I think you're paranoid. My phone's constantly on me, and a few women call me on it, but my girlf trusts me and doesnt have a problem with it. And I love her and would never cheat on her. When you start going through each others stuff to find proof that you can or cant trust them, it's time to take a long hard look at your relationship

Answer 8

If I was you, Id be very careful. I mean, what if you look through his phone and you dont like what you find? Or what if he catches you? It sounds like you dont trust him, and without that in a relationship then what else do you have? If you dont trust him you can never be happy together because youll always be questioning him and anything he tells you. You should sit down and talk things through with him and tell him your concerns

Answer 9

First of all, there is obviously NO trust in your relationship if you both want to/look thru eachother's phones.

My mother always said: The person taht goes snooping jsut wants to find something out and when they do, it usually is not a good thing.

You guys prob don't belong together if there is no trust.

Answer 10

Being drunk isn't an excuse, his anger over those texts is also out of line. Tell him to apologize and let it go. Otherwise you need to decide if you really want to be with someone who can't take responsibility for his actions and doesn't trust you.