Should I call her?

Question

I’m interested in this girl, but I'm not sure she's interested in me. We talk online a lot and go to the same school. I feel like I IM her a lot more then she IMs me and that kind of concerns me, but now she seems to be starting the conversations more and more. She once asked me if I found her attractive and I told her yes of course and she told me she blushed, so I have no idea what to think. I hung out with her and some other friends today, but I couldn't really tell much because we were all playing video games and stuff. The only thing I noticed was that she made fun of me a lot more then anyone else in the room. Later on she messages me online and we start talking, mostly just me talking about how I had a lot on my mind and stuff. Then she eventually gave me her number and told me that she'd chat with me if I needed to vent. I don’t know what to do or think. I'm really lost on this one. Should I call her up and tell her I like her or what?

Answer 1

Depending on her age... making fun a of a guy is a GOOD SIGN.

As a teacher - we always seem to know what students like whom, because they are hitting them, teasing them, or just being silly all of the time.

I would say... take things slow and try talking to her. Eventually - it will come up in the conversation - and you'll know!

Good Luck

Answer 2

If you are a shy person, call her up and keep it friendly and not too intimate. Don't say how you feel about her right away unless you really want to. Ask her out, but keep it innocent. Maybe lunch, hanging out, playing video games, etc... Just try to make sure it is just the two of you. Watch her carefully, but not staring at her. If she likes you, you might get some idea if you are paying attention.
As for the part about her teasing you, it may be because she likes you but doesn't want to show it in front of her friends.

Answer 3

the only thing that i can say is in poem form:


If I Could Say Anything (c)
By: Bruce Allen

If I could say anything
I would say to all to you
I love your company
And your warmth too
You make me happy
In ways I have never felt
Your heart is so warm
It makes the ice around me melt
I may be surrounded by people
Who I know and love
But you stick out
You make me soar way above
When I’m with you
I forget all my fears
Everything is ok
As long as you are near
If you ever left me
I don’t know what I would do
Life would not be worth living
It would turn heaven into doom
If I could say anything
I would say it all to you
If you can hear me
I LOVE YOU.

Answer 4

Yes, I would call her but don't tell her you like her just yet. I would talk to her a couple more times and get a feel if she likes you first.

Answer 5

Definitely.

Answer 6

Quit beating around the bush and just ask her out! She'll either say yes or no, and you'll either have a good time and you'll go out again, or you'll know better, that she isn't right for you. Go for it! Try it it's the only way you'll know.

Answer 7

Yep. Call her and invite her to go out with you. See what she says. If she says yes, then she is interested in you and likes you. If she says no or comes up with some excuse, then she isn't into you.

Good luck.

Answer 8

yes! this girl is obviously interested! just try not to think SO MUCH lol. relax, call her up, and just talk. It might be the best conversation of your life.

Answer 9

if u like her or even love her CALL her and tell her that if she has some1 then go to the next girl, but if she's single and she likes/loves u then u got her on the hook u just have to catch her and keep her 4 a long time...... :)

Answer 10

sounds like you two have a special relationship. keep it that way, it might be to early to let her know how your feeling inside and it might jeopardize your friendship. i don't know how long you two have been friends, but sometimes it takes a while for true feelings to emerge. it also sounds like you two a more comfortable in group settings, so let it be for now, stay friends and see where it goes.