for example u like some one very much how could u be sure that u love him/her. Especialy that u dont wanna take any risk.
2007-01-24 01:25:08 · 12 answers · asked by run2therainbow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you cant realize that cos you already know...
love does not come at once or suddenly....... It has always been there......... from the momment u met her/him....
yes?? the answer is surely NO!!!!!!!!!!
i dont believe in love at first sight... u have to know the person. live with him/her sometime... see if she has given her heart to some other one!
consider if she has done... are u ready to try to returen her heart and then gain it for urself? and do you get greedy when you see her with another one? and dont cry for her if you love her... make up your mind........ and the most important thing is there any habit in her/him that you dont like and you try to make her give it up!!!!!!!!!!!1 if yes......... make up your mind...
2007-01-25 04:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by behmen_muh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that u say u don't want to take a risk could be a problem. In order to truly love someone u have to put your heart out there and yes it is risky, but for it to be real u can't have walls up protecting yourself. When u love someone u know it. There is a chemistry that is undeniable. You can't wait to see them, u are excited when they phone u, they make u feel like u have never felt before, holding hands, hugging them makes u melt. If u love them, just looking at them is a warm feeling. I know it all sounds corny, but it really should feel like that if it is love. If you are questioning it, then it isn't love yet, but believe me u will know when it is. You will forget everyone from your past and only see this person in your future, but u must open your heart to truly feel it and yes take the risk because it is worth it.
2007-01-24 01:34:38 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well because defenitions of love vary from person to person it depends. When you get the overwhelming feeling like you are willing to sacrifice for them. When you are with your other friends and you constantly think about him or her. Sex is not the only issue that crosses your mind with that person. You're more interested in getting to know them better emotionally than sexually. Love encompasses a great amount of emotion and when you find it your heart will tell you it is right
2007-01-24 01:36:47 · answer #3 · answered by explosyv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is something that grows after a while. There comes a point when you look at someone or your eyes hold for a few minutes and you feel like that person is the one
2007-01-24 01:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me start by saying - it is different for everyone!
My best description (for myself) is I am happier when I am with my husband then when we are apart!
Another sign for me, is that I began (subconsciously) thinking about all of the nice things I could do for HIM - even if that meant taking away something for myself.... not getting my nails or hair done for a while so I could buy my husband the video game he wanted... etc.
I believe love is when you finally put the other persons needs in line with yours - NOT ALWAYS TAKING A BACKSEAT!!!
I think when you really like someone - you want to get to know them better...
However, when you actually love them - you are able to understand even the things that drive you NUTS - that they do!
Good Luck.. finding it for yourself!
2007-01-24 01:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by Glory 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is a bit cliche but... love is not a feeling it is a commitment... If you are ready and willing to commit to this person then you love them... desire to be with them... around them... anywhere near them... well that ebbs and flows... especially over the course of say 10+ years...
The question I think is a good one to ask yourself is this: Are you better with/him or her... than you are without them... or does this person bring you down... or have no affect...
If you found someone who makes you better... raises you up... then it is a no-brainer... GL... love is a tough one...
2007-01-24 01:32:01 · answer #6 · answered by AvidBeerDrinker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate this cop our answer, but you'll know. If your not completely sold on the idea, then you aren't in love.
When you love someone they consume you in everything, your thoughts, your dreams. You want to never leave them. You will feel what they feel, their pain, their happiness.
You will ache for them, and not just sexually.
2007-01-24 01:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by pudderhon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, tats a tough 1. Ask yourself truthfully, only u can ans tat.
2007-01-24 01:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by Joy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her u should know.if your heart beats when she's around.if you look into her eyes and she's looking back and smiling back.you may just love her
2007-01-24 01:30:51 · answer #9 · answered by chris r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to know that answer myself.
2007-01-24 03:24:01 · answer #10 · answered by Emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋