My bosses wife is here filing. And she is sooooo fat. Well, she commented that it looked like I'd lost some weight. I told her I hadn't. She pulled up her shirt and showed me her stomach. She said "Look At All This" and grabbed her huge fat roll around her so called waist. I said "Holy Lord, Mother of God, Hallowed Be Thy Name...that's a lot of effin fat!!!!" It just slipped out.
Now I have nothing against fat people, but 9:00 in the morning is a little early to be lettin' all the fat hang out...
Now she's not speaking to me. Was that the wrong thing to say?
2007-01-24 01:22:36 · 12 answers · asked by DoubleD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah it might have been just go back and tell her that you meant to say "you are a rail baby"
Don't feel bad either, I say the wrong things all
the time for example I meant to ask my man the other night to pass me the salt and it came out sounding like "you've f*cked my life up you jerk!"
2007-01-24 01:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely it was the wrong thing to say. Take it from a guy who was raised around a lot of women. There are two things you never tell a woman. 1) She is looking old and 2) she is looking fat. I don't care if you have to grease the sides of her a** to get her through a doorway. Keep that to yourself.
Assuming you will still have a job if the boss' wife snitches on you and tell him what you said, then here is what you tell someone on the heavy side when they are showing their fat rolls:
"Please put your shirt on."
2007-01-24 01:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy, DoubleD, sounds like you stepped in some poo-poo with that one.
You are normally such a caring and approachable person... it seems strange that you would say something so over the top. Perhaps you are having a bad start to your morning.
I, on the other hand, have a somewhat abrasive personality, and not too much wit, and I tend to say things off the cuff, and find myself offending people on pretty much a daily basis.
Perhaps you could try to smooth things over... perhaps run to Tim Horton's here in a few and bring her back a special box of TimBits or something. Perhaps suggest lap-band surgery. Or just take your letter opener and give her a couple of good pokes with it just to see if she really is that fat. Oops. There I go again. My bad. :(
Sorry. I guess I wasn't much help.
2007-01-24 01:43:52 · answer #3 · answered by Fred F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I even have carried out so contained in the previous. while i grow to be in Australia final, I picked up adult males in bars and slept with them. I did this six situations in 3 months and felt large throughout intercourse yet completely dejected afterwards. i think of it grow to be yet another extension of my mini-breakdown after my fiance's dying. i glance lower back now with finished horror at what I did. I did get STD checked in Fremantle after the final guy, which fee a packet yet grow to be a sort of penance i think. i grow to be clean! Doing the remarkable component and it being incorrect I do plenty. I tell human beings the actuality. generally this is exactly what they do no longer prefer to take heed to!
2016-09-27 22:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no she is fat then she is fat. but you did pop off to much.m get her a vary big big box of candy. then tell sorry roll
2007-01-24 01:32:33 · answer #5 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That was very wrong, you must always consider other people's feelings. Next time try to be more polite.
2007-01-24 01:28:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey D....she's the one who flashed you her flab....and you what?....the truth is the sad thing...but the truth is still the truth!
have a great yalfin day girl!
2007-01-24 01:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what did she expect to hear, some kind of validation that she was NOT fat?
get the chub a mirror.....
2007-01-24 03:17:17 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They can make fun of skinny people all the live long day and call us aneorexic. But you can't say ANYTHING to a fat person! They even get offended by being called HEALTHY! I mean WTF????
2007-01-24 01:48:30 · answer #9 · answered by K-E-G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey, we have to call them how we see them! Ask her if she wants some butter with that roll!
2007-01-24 01:29:14 · answer #10 · answered by Pardonne Moi? 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋