I was curious about when you should end family nudity? I am 16 years old and my parents raised us in the nudist lifestyle and we often attend nude gatherings and clubs etc. But I am wondering if I should tell my parents we should stop. My cousin sister Courtney is13 who my parents took after my aunt died lives with us and is in the 7th grade and lately when she has been walking around nude, I have been feeling a little different. I dont know if I like it anymore. She is mature and developed now and I am feeling a little weird around her especially when I am nude also. Things are starting to happen. What should I do?
2007-01-24 01:20:09 · 14 answers · asked by eeee d 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I am 50+ years old and have been a nudist nearly all my life.The act of nudism is not obscane but there are times that a male feels a breech of security.When my soon reached 17 he said he did not wish to go to the club anymore and that was fine with us.
Talk to your folks and I'll bet they understand.Let them know your feelings but do not stop the recreation for the whole family.
2007-01-24 01:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by blakree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your feeling is a normal, hormone driven, reaction to someone of the opposite sex.
As you've been raised in a nudist family it's something your parents should be fully aware of and, to some extent, expecting.
Therefore I would suggest you talk with them and say you prefer to wear something at times. It should be no big deal to them and leaves the door open for you to be nude when you're more comfortable with the situation.
2007-01-26 06:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by glawster2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is much about this question that does not seem to hold true. As a matter of fact I detect a strong pungent odor of bull crap from this very question. Putting your sexual fantasy's in the form of a question for others to look at is a little silly.
But this is a pretty good fantasy by the way. Just in the future keep these thoughts between you, your dark room, a rag under the bed and your hand. That is where they should stay.
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2007-01-24 09:28:07 · answer #3 · answered by Bacchus 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I assume you are a male, and maybe starting to have sexual feelings?
Maybe you could ask y oru parents to sit down and talk about this. They seem very open minded and hopefully you can express yoru concerns and they can offer solutions. If you start wearing clothes, would Courtney start?
Good luck!
2007-01-24 09:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by amitaconchita 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You can't tell your parents to stop. If you want to stop then you should.
Nothing is wrong with. You are at the age when your sexuality is starting to develop fully. Do not loose night rest over it.
2007-01-24 09:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a male, then you have a problem and they can probably see that.I have never agreed with my children seeing me and my hubby in the buff.Tell your cousin that she needs to put her clothes on and Yes tell your parents it's time to cover up.Tell them as they age--Every little and big things will head to the south, and that doesn't look nice---Believe me......
2007-01-24 13:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as you feel uncompfortable with doing this then you should tell your parents. They can't force you into doing this, they may not want to stop but you can. Just talk to them and i'm sure they'll will understand.
2007-01-24 09:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by Invisus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're starting to have weird feeling around your cousin,I think you realize that thing have changed (esp.with you).You could talk to your cousin and see if she feels the same way also.
2007-01-24 09:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say something, or talk to someone to help you move out if you feel uncomfortable-do you have mature friends or relatives to live with?
2007-01-24 09:29:23 · answer #9 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,you should stop it since you are feeling uncomfortable.It is a strange situation.Never heard of such a thing before
2007-01-24 09:27:40 · answer #10 · answered by Padmini Gopalan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋