I was curious about when you should end family nudity? I am 16 years old and my parents raised us in the nudist lifestyle and we often attend nude gatherings and clubs etc. But I am wondering if I should tell my parents we should stop. My cousin sister Courtney is13 who my parents took after my aunt died lives with us and is in the 7th grade and lately when she has been walking around nude, I have been feeling a little different. I dont know if I like it anymore. She is mature and developed now and I am feeling a little weird around her especially when I am nude also. Things are starting to happen. What should I do?
2007-01-24 01:18:45 · 14 answers · asked by eeee d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
What your feeling is a normal, hormone driven, reaction to someone of the opposite sex.
As you've been raised in a nudist family it's something your parents should be fully aware of and, to some extent, expecting.
Therefore I would suggest you talk with them and say you prefer to wear something at times. It should be no big deal to them and leaves the door open for you to be nude when you're more comfortable with the situation.
2007-01-25 22:38:55 · answer #1 · answered by glawster2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I for one don't believe in the nudist lifestyle, but I think that if you were raised that way and your parents support it, then you should talk to them about your concerns. I am sure if that is their belief system, this type of concern has cropped up in other situations and they may have good advice to you on how to handle this. Since you asked about when family nudity should end, in my own family, parents stopped being nude around their children as soon as the kids were old enough to start noticing there was a difference between how the parents looked nude and how the kids looked nude (usually around age 3 or 4). As for the kids being nude, I was raised, and raised my own kids, to be nude only when getting dressed and getting in and out of the shower/bath. This was around age 3 or 4 as well. Not being raised in a family where nudity is commonplace, I don't know what age one would want to stop being nude. I think you should talk to your parents about your concern regarding your and your cousin's nudity. You have a valid concern and one which could cause you a lot of unnecessary embarrassment.
2007-01-24 01:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your parents about it and tell them there is some chemistry between you and your cousin and if the nudity thing does not stop you will probably weaken to your wanton desires.
when nothing takes place threaten them that you will move out of the house
2007-01-24 01:26:59 · answer #3 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop walking around in the nude. I personally think its disgusting.
Youre a growing boy and shes a growing girl...these things are bound to happen if youre walking around butt naked!
Get yourself some clothes and ask your parents to cover up too....just the thought of it makes me wanna.....
2007-01-24 01:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by Flower Power 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Let your parents know that you don't feel comfortable around your cousin. You are both at the age where curiosity could get in the way of poor judgement.
2007-01-24 01:24:24 · answer #5 · answered by jacksonvillegarycollins 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are uncomfortable, you should not be forced to live that lifestyle. That is you own personal freedom that you must persue and your parents, though they may try, cannot actually stop you from being you.
2007-01-24 01:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents how you feel. And don't go around nude.
2007-01-24 01:23:36 · answer #7 · answered by bette69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents that you are not comfortable with the nudity anymore. You are experiencing hormones raging and it is just not appropriate and is probably embarrassing to you.
2007-01-24 01:22:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nudity is a tough topic. if you feel uncomfortable, speak up. otherwise, you'll end up a very unhappy and insecure person
2007-01-24 01:22:10 · answer #9 · answered by jimbeach37 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
things as in sexual feelings if so keep your pants on and zipped and do not look at her when shes naked dont think about it and if she is demanding attention on her body close your eyes shell get boerd
2007-01-24 01:23:17 · answer #10 · answered by chrischick2438 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋