My boyfriend has lost interest in sex. He says he still finds me sexy and loves me. What should I do?

Answer 1

try some new thing, bring in toys and games maybe he might regain interest in the slapping skins between the sheets.

or try a video camara just dont put in a tape. make it dummy recording

if that dont work try bringing in another person.

more then likely a female not to join but to watch then maybe later join in.

Answer 2

there are so many factors to consider why he lost interest in sex. maybe he's tired from work or he has another girl but he never told you because he dont want to hurt you if you'll know it. or maybe the routine is not that exciting. u must know the reason. if none of the mentioned above, you should bring him to the doctor and let him checked. there are some illnesses or abnormalities that leads to it. there must be a reason. if you cant find a reason, then he lied to you.

Answer 3

may be you should find out why he has lost interest in having sex with you even though he says to youhe finds you sexy because most of us guys always love having very good sex with our sexy ladies he must have some kind of a problem it isnt you for sure

Answer 4

talk to him and give hik all the support he can get. he is probably stressed out right now or has something on his. He probably still finds you sexy and loves you but he is undergoing a 'grown up stage' in his life. He is focusing more on other qspects of his life.Feed him well and have a sex schedule that will fulfill both of your needs

Answer 5

That's easy. You have to make him want you:) You have to feel good about yourself and make him feel good about himself! Build up his ego. Come on to him in ways that appease his desire.
Read up on some things to do in the bedroom that he might like. Men will be men they need change, excitement, affection, and attention. Even if they do not know it. Take it from someone who has been keeping the love alive, nearly everyday for almost seven years. A relationship requires WORK. But when you have an open line of communication the work is much easier. When you have a very intimate, exciting, loving, open relationship in the bedroom. You then open up the lines of communication to whole new levels.
Good Luck, Megan
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Answer 6

What makes him lost interst in sex then? Is he having too much sex out there with another? Is he very very tired from work/study? Is there anything wrong when you guys are having sex the previous time? Was it pasionate enough? Talk to him, ask him what he expects from you when you guys are in bed. Maybe, he is tired from routine sex. Try something aggressive, be seductive, GET new LINGERIES!!!

Good luck!

Answer 7

Try and ask him why has he lost intrest. Maybe you two should add some variety into your routine. Find out what he likes and dis-likes. Communication is the only way to get anywhere in an relationship

Answer 8

Men love sex. If he has lost interest in sex, either he has some issues or he is cheating on you. And don't believe everything he tells you.

Answer 9

Try different ways of getting him aroused. There are many ways to do that. Like where some perfume that smells sexy(obsession night, j-low black) things like that. Try putting on sexy lingerie or try to play sex games. Things like that. Role play and/or foreplay.

Answer 10

MAKE SURE HE HAS NOT FOUND SOMEONE ELSE. IF NOT, TRY TALKING IT OVER WITH HIM AND SEE WHY HE FEELS THIS WAY. IT MAY HAVE LITTLE TO DO WITH YOU. MAYBE HE NEEDS TO SEE A DOCTOR AND IS A PROBLEM WITH HIMSELF. CAN BE A LOT OF REASONS. TALK TO HIM AND TRY TO SPICE IT UP WITH SOME NEW IDEAS AND PLACES IF IT IS JUST BOREDOM.