I am not sure where to start I been dating with this man 5 yrs I met him online and i moved there with him i was 25 at the time he told me he was 42 well i was at his house when his ex wife showed up things got ugly with her and I I had her to the wall when the cops came in he took off outside and called them so anyways come to find out he was 53 and then to make it really bad his girl moved in with us she is 16 i ask her to do something when he is at work she gets on the phone calling her mom in canada and then the mom calls me cussing me out He wont say nothing to her his kid is taking over the house it was 3 am when i found a boy in the house we would not get out of bed to go see about it he says well she is almost 18 to top all this off after i went to bed his girl got in my purse and stole my things i found them in her room so i have moved out but i have a girl that is 14 and its hard on her everyday she ask me to go back there she says that she really wants to live there
2007-01-24 00:57:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Patty....you deserve better and so does your 14 yr old daughter. If this girl stole from your pocketbook once, she will do it again. You did the right thing, in my opinion in moving out. By the way, I am married now for almost 26 yrs and have a son 23 and a daughter 20. I too am 53 soon to be 54. Regards and Best Wishes to you both. Ed
2007-01-24 01:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by Ed F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay it is good that you left and your daughter is 14 so guess what you are the parent . You don't need to let her go back in that nasty environment b/c i bet she is better off with you. My daddi took me away from my mother at the age of 7 but now i understand b/c my mother's environment wasn't good {drugs,sex, alochol and other things so he did tha right thing but now i live with mt mother. Please don't let her stay with them b/c it won't b nice.
2007-01-24 09:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by Cherri09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry the guy has lied big time to you ---- it seems to be a very complex situation that is not to your benefit --- and i dont think it will get any better ---- i think it would be best to break all ties with him maybe even move away ---- you have my best wishes
im in a similar situation -- long distance big age gap but i have not lied about anything to my lady and when we meet i only want her in my life
2007-01-24 09:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down with him and discuss everything and let him know that you won't allow the ex to run interference for his daughter. set ground rules and make them stick, good luck
2007-01-24 09:04:16 · answer #4 · answered by singledad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be strong and move on, this is not a healthy situation for you or your daughter.
2007-01-24 09:03:00 · answer #5 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋