I really fancy this guy. he has been chasing me for 2 years now. we have only kissed.
we only meet up if we are out in town on the same nite-by chance.
i have heard from other people that this guy loves the chase. he has never told me this himself.
can the chase really go on for this long???
i really like him. how do i play it???what do i do???
he is 29 and single.
2007-01-24 00:53:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think if he was interested he'd have asked you out on a proper date by now. Sorry.
2007-01-24 00:57:42 · answer #1 · answered by mcfifi 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes the chase can last that long. Whatever you do, dont' give everything in one go, always leave something for next time, and you should be ok, until you want the chase over.
2007-01-24 08:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by shortnotsilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out on a one to one date; if he rejects you then you will know it for sure; If he accepts then go somewhere that will get you chatting - like a nice cosy bar. Ask him what his plans are for the future - why he's single and what does he look for in a girl.
This way you can tell if he fancies you or just playing with your feelings.
2007-01-24 09:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by sneek_matrix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, why not play the same game with him or ignore him and see how he likes the chase game then. If you really don't want to play it then try to get him sat down and speak to him about it and ask him how he feels.
2007-01-24 08:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by Amy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's really shy. Get drunk some night you're both out and try to score him (kiss) and ask him out. Then the next day if it's gone badly just blame it on the drink, even just pretend to be drunk!
2007-01-24 09:03:57 · answer #5 · answered by T M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be cool, be yourself, and try not to listen to what others say give him a call and ask him out ;-) i honestly don't think he would chase you for two years if he didn't see something in you that he likes x good luck x
2007-01-24 09:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by scuba girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make an effort - if it goes well, then it goes well. Just don't be needy. Show yourself an attractive mate for him. The effort's obvious - exercise, well-planned date - trap him into a commitment like a day out where you can discuss any potential future.
2007-01-24 08:58:39 · answer #7 · answered by einenglander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think after 2 years if he wanted you then you eould have known by now, i think he is just using you when you go out, forgethim and find someone who wont play games xx
2007-01-24 08:57:52 · answer #8 · answered by Kimmy xx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it`s been two years you must stop running and let him catch you he might not know what to do if he did , maybe thats why hes 29 with no girl friend. good luck.
2007-01-24 09:03:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then why wait sounds like you both like each other, go for it even if you should take the first step, tell him you like him! It can only get better!
2007-01-24 09:01:44 · answer #10 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋