I been with my bf for about 12 month, I love him so much and he always say he loves me and he want to spend his hull live with me, I mean that is great, however we don’t do much, I always go see him at his place and we just set and watch TV all day and we end up ******* and then it is time for me to go home, I mean I want it to be more then that I feel like it is going to get old, we don’t go out to the movies and stuff like that because he don’t have a lot of money, and were ever we go out I end up paying for our food. I don’t know what to do some one help me please, what do I need to do to improve our relationship
2007-01-24 00:47:19 · 5 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The question should really be whether or not his situation will improve. Think carefully about this. He never has any money and you have to pay all the bills. Is that what you want in a husband. You will have to work hard for the rest of your life to support him. Will he be able to buy you the things you need and want? What are your dreams? Are they to live with a man who will give you nothing and take everything? Or do you want to have a life where you can raise a family and know that when you are old, you will not be living each day wondering how you are going to eat?
I have seen women caught in this trap before. The men call it convenient sex. He gets everything he wants (SEX) and you get to pay for everything. Sounds great from his point of view. How about from yours?
2007-01-24 01:06:21 · answer #1 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, well do the two of you share any friends? If so you might try getting everyone together for a night/day of games and movies. Have everyone bring something, food/soda/snakes, and so on. Every weekend my husband and I got together with friends to play cards and board games, lots of fun and very nice if you have children as there's no need for a sitter. Now, as for you dear :) Get out, do something. There's nothing worse then boredom in a relationship. If he cant afford to take you out you owe it to yourself to do it yourself. Grab a girlfriend go to a movie, have a lingerie party, go to a club, but do something for you. He'll appreciate you more and you'll find quiet nights at home with him are not so boring as your need to be out and about has been fulfilled. And who knows, you may just meet someone that has more to offer you in life. Just a thought. Have fun and Good Luck.
2007-01-24 01:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by whateverhohum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, no matter how old you get playing games are fun. like strip poker to add excitement. go play in a park, like you haven't since you were a kid. i love doing that. go for a walk to nowhere and just see what happens. buy everything you need for fondue... it's really cheap and have a fondue night. find another couple to hang out with so you guys can have interaction with other couples and not have to go out anywhere.
with my first ex fiance it was exactly the same way and we ended up being together for 2.5 years and after a year we stopped doing anything. i wish i would've made it more fun but then again i don't cuz he might still be with me and i know we wouldn't work out.
if you love him and want to be with him forever you'll find a way to spice it up without going in debt. little things can always be fun.
2007-01-24 00:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by Back*To*Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 01:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are plenty of things to do that dont need money --- sightsee window shop ---- but if he cant even pay for food --- the priority does not seem to be you ---- talk to him and if it does not change dont have sex with him --- that will sort it out very quickly --- best wishes
2007-01-24 00:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋