im 16 im dada accused me of being gay cause im not cause i did a gay sign nothing bad hes accusing im not gay how do ideal with these problems
2007-01-24 00:46:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If all he did was accuse you, I would advice to let it go. Don't do the gay sign anymore because it obviously upsets him. I am the parent of a 16 Y.O it would not bother me if she was gay but that is me, some parents freak out. He is your dad and you won't win the fight. If you are not gay don't let it get to you, don't show any signs that would set him off and it should blow over.
2007-01-24 00:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by calenderchic0271 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just terrifies him....that is all... we see in the media these days...gay this...gay that...it feels like everyone is turning to this life style...for many of us parents, it terrifies us, we want the best for the children that we love, and I can tell you for most of us, it is not to be gay. So parents are looking for little signs...and unfortunately for you...you gave him one...intentionally or not...Just tell him...look dad...I'm sorry...I didn't mean to freak you out...I shouldn't have (even though it wasn't that big of a deal, and you wasn't serious) been messing around like that....I didn't know it would be that upsetting to you, I won't do it anymore. By the way...there is this hot chick I would like to go out with....can I borrow the car?....better yet can I have it?....lol....
2007-01-24 00:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Samuel, can you clarify whats happening here in this question a bit. First of all, your his son and he should still love you no matter what. Secondly, why would he love you any less if you were straight bisexual or gay. Going back to the first statement...your still his son and he should love you no matter what. Hope this helped. Regards, Ed aka EdF253@yahoo.com
Feel free to message me, if you feel the need to chat some.
2007-01-24 00:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by Ed F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look him in the eye, and say I am not trying to be disrespectful, but I do not appreciate you saying I am gay, when I am not. I hope you have a great day!
2007-01-24 00:50:56 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Quit acting gay . Bring your girlfriend over more often
2007-01-24 00:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by boatworker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're dad is ignorant for putting you down in anyway to begin with. what does your mom think of his behaviour. tell your dad to back off, as harsh as that may seem, he has no right treating you without any respect either. if, this does not stop, talk with a teacher at school, maybe your teacher will sit down with your dad and explain what this is doing to you. maybe your dad is joking around, but it's not funny anymore when it hurts.
2007-01-24 00:56:45 · answer #6 · answered by dthsmx5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to let it get you down If he is like my dad he won't really believe it just say he does so he can torment you with it for a while
2007-01-24 00:51:52 · answer #7 · answered by ohnodanoh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not gay stop doing things like that. If you are, so what? God loves you, be proud of who you are.
2007-01-24 00:57:26 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋