Seriously.
What is more important?
Being with a girl who's attractive and fabulous, but a little chubby?
Or going for the hot babe with the smokin' body?
How many of you really include a womans weight when describing the perfect one?
And are you completly opposed to the idea of dating chubby girls to begin with?
I'd like to hear some honest answers with descriptive details.
2007-01-24 00:42:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BTW - I am not worried or looking for some guy. I am married for 10 years. I was chubby then and still chubby now. I was curious on what men really thought about this issue. With 65% of Americans overweight, I was wondering what men thought of that in terms of looking at women.
2007-01-24 01:31:19 · update #1
It isn't that important to me really, just as long as she wears the weight well.
For me, being with a girl who is attractive, but a little chubby is better for me. Defining "a little chubby" depends person to person, but if I have a woman, with a smokin' hot bod, and I cannot look at her face without squeeming... I just cannot have that!
A woman with a little extra weight becomes 100x sexier if she is willing to show you that she will put in the time and dedication to make it to the shape that SHE expects from herself. Nothing is sexier to me than a determined, fitness/health oriented woman.
Girls that are heavy in the face I am not usually attracted to. Woman can hide what the have around their waist and their thighs a little better, so sometimes what women have up under their clothes comes as a surprise, but the best thing they can do, is be comfortable with their body, no matter how unhappy they are with it. And just to make it better, WORK to get it to where they want it.
These are just some of my views on the attractiveness of women, take what you like from it. My girl now is BEAUTIFUL, but she is a little unhappy with her waistline, so she is at the gym running about 5 days a wk = SEXY, and I hope she gets to the shape she is looking for ( I will take her either way!)
2007-01-24 01:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by djkoolaide 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The girl who's attractive and fabulous but a little chubby. For me, while looks are a part of what I look for, the thing that wins me over is personality and how compatible we are. I like to make her laugh so does she have a nice laugh? Can she make me smile in a second or two? I'm not completely opposed to dating chubby girls. I may not see a relationship with them at first glance but maybe at second glance or third glance. One of the things with chubby girls is that they are generally very insecure and I don't want to be in a relationship where I have to give and not get anything in return. I don't want to listen to problem after problem and therefore not being able to share my own problems. I recently looked at an old journal entry describing my dream girl. Weight isn't there at all. If the girl is happy with herself, then I am happy. If we complement each other and make each other happy while sticking together through the bad times and enjoying the good times then that's amazing.
2007-01-24 08:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by joe19 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, I like to say that most not all chubby girls have low self esteem. I have seen chubby girls with handsome men. How they land these guys is based on subtle flirtatious gestures. We men like a balance of intimacy; emotional ,intellectual and physical. The more the first two the stronger the last one. Also its about presentation you can wear clothes that hide your body or clothes that enhance your bodies natural beauty. if a man doesnt get a haircut from time to time or shave he can look unkept. Not all colors and patterns on clothes are pleasing to the eyes. If the girl in question wants to act like she is very thin then its a problem for me. I mean if you are chubby accept the reality and go on. Its obvious but we dont have to wear out the message. If you are too large it can affect your health.it can hinder physcial intimacy anyway you slice it or dice it you must maintain a reasonable weight for your height and build.;)
2007-01-24 09:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by reme14u 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm 6' tall & weigh 210Lbs. As long as she's not bigger than me life is good. I personally dont like the skinny look.A little on the chubby side is better.Extremely over weight people have issues beyond their weight that I don't care to deal with.
2007-01-24 08:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by boatworker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not that important but not 50 lbs overweight either chubby girls make good lovers.
2007-01-24 08:54:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I prefer chubby girls instead of the skinny ones. But on the other hand that wouldn't mean she had no chance with a slim body. It's just a matter of "not too fat" and "not too skinny".
2007-01-24 08:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by male4girlz 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think chubby women are great. I would usually see it as a positive point when describing a woman as chubby. I would never consider a womans weight as a problem.
It does help however that a woman is happy with herself and how she looks and is confident with it.
2007-01-24 08:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
depends on the male - some like them thin and petite while others prefer some meat. dont let the media think that just because you are not thin as some that ALL guys will not like you - i have many friends who love girls who have a little meat on them, but personally i like the petite ones.
2007-01-24 08:49:19 · answer #8 · answered by tripppah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its really important to me, I like them to be feminine, not big. Its just not sexually attractive to look at a fat girl. The only fat I like is on a woman's butt and chest. I will never marry a fat woman unless she got fat because of me getting her pregnant
2007-01-24 08:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In reality .... looks just get a persons attention ...it's the total package that sells the person ...
You gotta have convictions, feelings, a personality, brains..etc..
You gotta have heart!
Folks who olny look at the package tend to bit a bit shallow ..... seek the deeper connection & conviction.
Good Luck
2007-01-24 08:49:34 · answer #10 · answered by John 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋