Last night one of my ex's asked me to go out with them to a pub, but she was also drunk when she asked and she was being really flirty with me. I would not mind but i have a girlfriend, i really want to go out because since ive turned 18 i have not really been out, so what do u think i should do.
2007-01-24 00:35:31 · 19 answers · asked by Louis P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are you willing to jeopardize your relationship with your new girlfriend for your ex. If so, then you don't need to be in that relationship in the first place, if not then you should just tell her and see how she feels about it, Invite her along and if she is really uncomfortable with it then I suggest you opt not to go. Instead find a place for you and the new gf to go and have fun or go out with friends. Either way, this ex sounds like she is up to no good and in my opinion you should stay away.
2007-01-24 00:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by lonestarlady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think u should go out with your ex on Friday. Firstly why did you break up in the first place?? Did she drink to much? Whatever the reason for your split - what's changed now that makes you think the relationship would work the second time around. You didn't say if the invite was for two!! If it is and your girlfriend would not feel uncomfortable then talk about it. You have a girlfriend and say you have not been out for a while. Take your girlfriend out. Are you not happy with your current girlfriend? If the answer is no then at least be fair to her and tell her it's not working. That way you can both move on and find someone who you will be happy with. Finally what does your ex really think of you!! If she know's you have a girlfriend, then why is she asking you out. Is that the kind of young man you want people to think and see you as (A CHEAT)!! I think the best thing to do if you really want a night out is go with your girlfriend or have a boy's night out and let your hair down without thinking about girls at all.
2007-01-24 00:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by ros3e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the ex is just trying to start trouble for you. She probably knows you have a new girlfriend and wants to make her jealous and see if she can lead you on. My advice is don't go. If you want to go out, take your girlfriend with you or go with your buddies, but you might want to go to a different place then your ex.
2007-01-24 01:54:09 · answer #3 · answered by Green Eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother with her, you can always go another pub. Take your girlfriend out, she's the important one If my girlfriend asked me if we could go to the pub with her ex I would feel really intimidated. It might upset your girlfriend. I wouldn't go.
2007-01-24 01:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by phobzy85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, this a bit difficult.
She's an ex and she was flirting with you. You want to meet up.
I think you may only want to meet up because you think there may be something in it. You can go out anytime. It doesn't have to be with her.
If you can tell your girlfriend about this and/or take her with you, then it's okay. If you keep it a secret, there's a problem.
It's your decision.
2007-01-24 02:47:00 · answer #5 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she was flirting then she will most likely make a move, are strong enough to reject her?
if your not then i would either take your girlfriend with you so you have no choice or not put yourself in that situation in the first place. if you can then go and have a good night and have nothing on your concience
good luck
2007-01-24 01:35:34 · answer #6 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself a question why is she your EX GIRLFRIEND? if you want to go out you have your current girlfriend to go out with.
2007-01-24 00:53:57 · answer #7 · answered by sparklingstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved with ex-girlfriends, unless you want to experience the same headaches that caused you to split in the first place?
2007-01-24 00:40:56 · answer #8 · answered by markos m 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you already have a girlfriend then don't. She was drunk, flirty and may not remember that she uttered those words.
Just say no and recall all the reasons why she's your "ex".
2007-01-24 00:40:48 · answer #9 · answered by singsong 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Going out with her would be cheating on your girlfriend. You could lose your girl over this, so make a wise choice depending on who you really want. It sounds to me that you could easily get this girl back.
2007-01-24 00:44:49 · answer #10 · answered by blondedarkie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋