2007-01-24 00:33:22 · 19 answers · asked by urdirtylittlesecret 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to him and ask him where does he see you pair in 6 months time.
2007-01-24 00:38:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show an interest in his life but don't be pushy guys like to know that your there and that you can be a friend as well as a lover then slowly he should open up if he doesn't he has a trust issue which could be a problem later
2007-02-01 04:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by dizzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time and space so that he can feel comfortable and eventually open up gradually. Never rush a person into doing or sharing something they are not ready to do. Become less of an inquirer and more of a talker. Make sure you open up gradually.
2007-02-01 00:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of time and no pressure. You need to earn his trust and he will open up when he is ready. If he feels u are pressuring him it will take even longer. Be open with him and little by little he will start opening up with u.
2007-01-24 09:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slice him open with a knife! Just kidding, but you can not make anyone do something they do not want to do or that they are incapable of doing. You can open talk to him about whatever your issues are and let him know that you wish he would open up to you. G'luck!
2007-01-24 08:39:24 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no sure way how to make a guy to open up.... unless his ready..... if you're out on a date or just talking, let him do the talking....if he stops talking, dont just blabber anything that pops up in your mind just to say something and not have a "quiet time" between the conversation... we girls are always always quick in that kind of thing... its the "oh no he stop talking, i have to say something!" kind of situation..... give him time, dont push him to talk when his not ready.....if he doesnt open up soon he'll never be, because its his choice...........
2007-02-01 01:54:43 · answer #6 · answered by wailey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open up deeply yourself and that usually gets them talking. Girls have a tendency to talk a lot and what i've noticed is that when I shut up, my bf opens up...a lot!
Sometimes we just need to shut our pie-hole and they start blabbering.
2007-01-31 23:13:19 · answer #7 · answered by gnuck gnuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just by being there for him-let him talk about himself-ask questions that gets him to talk about what he is thinking, feeling.
Another thing is when he is talking, just listen, clarify if you must but look him straight in the eye as he talks. you will know if he is communicating from the heart or just from the mind by if he is making eye contact with you as he talks....
2007-01-24 08:38:43 · answer #8 · answered by singsong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try. Don't try to change him. Let him be him self. If his level of openness is not to your liking.....find another guy. You need to accept him for who he is and how much he is willing to give to you.
2007-02-01 01:44:15 · answer #9 · answered by Yourname Here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he needs to or your leaving that worked for me.. mind you for the longest time he didn't notice how quiet he was and eventually he came around, but it is still in progress.. but he is alot more open and talking alot more which saved our relasionship beceause i couldn't live with that much "distance" between us. but if he doesn't come around dont change him, you should love him for him. good luck!
2007-02-01 03:00:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how close you are. if you are a little close start by sharing little secrets you have not too secret but then talk honestly talk to him. slowly he will open up but he has to trust you and you have to earn that.
2007-01-31 21:12:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋