One of my closest guy friends works at the same place as I do and I began to develop feelings for him though he has a gf in another country. I told him I liked him and I felt it was best that we ignore each other for awhile so I can get over him. Anyway he asked me if I wanted to hook up with him, i said i did, but then he said i should do it with another guy I like. Anyway during all of this, I got mad at him for jerking my feelings around and I ended up calling him a dog, but then I apologized. The thing is I said all of this via text. The next day I wrote him a letter saying how sorry I was for how I acted, and that it was better that we treat each other as professionals since he has a gf and I need to move on. He ignored me and we've been ignoring each other for the past 3 weeks and now it is awkward and i miss talking to him sometimes. Yesterday, I got a b-day card from some of my coworkers. He wrote Happy Birthday, but didn't sign his name.
2007-01-24 00:24:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to get over this one if its meant to be it will you cant be involved with someone that has a girl thats real missed up imagine if it was you its not nice he may have jerked youa round but you cant be surprised he has a girl and cant commit any real feelings for you unless they break up i think its real sad when people do this when someone is taken leave it alone!!!
2007-01-24 00:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by Happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make it hard on yourself or him, you have already confessed liking him and he is a man so don't add to his desire for you either. I would just keep it professional for now because you know he has a girlfriend and this will keep you from cheating or doing worst things, a true friendship will stand no matter what is thrown at it. I think he ignored you because he did not know what to say to you because of all that has took place, and him signing the card that way is the same not wanting to give too much so you won't think too much!!! (reading into it)
2007-01-24 08:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by livlovelaugh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their are several lessons for you to learn here. Now you knew he had a girlfriend, but you put yourself out their and expressed how you felt about him. One important lesson to learn is, hands off to any one that you work with. Now that the two of you are ignoring each other, their is nothing wrong with you speaking to him. Don't dwell on this, but take this as one of life's lesson to learn and move on. Happy New Year!
2007-01-24 08:36:41 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you copy and paste this questions from the day before? Get over it girl. You made a fool of yourself now and you made him feel uncomfortable. Obviously he doesn't even wanna be friends with you since he gets kind of annoyed at your presence. That's just life. Move on...
2007-01-24 08:28:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you've asked this question about three times already, and the answers are all the same! Don't you remember he was only trying to use the first time? Let it go, you deserve better. If you have to, get a different job away from him.
2007-01-24 08:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by gingi_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id let it go i think if you mess with it more you will be just playing with fire. I know its a loss to not be able to talk to him..but if you tried to communicate with him more it seems like it would just cause more problems, especially since it is in the workplace.
2007-01-24 08:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by magickitty0621 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez.
The first thing is....you went after a guy who was taken. Shame on you. Second, leave him alone. Third, don't stalk him. Fourth, move on with your life.
2007-01-24 08:28:06 · answer #7 · answered by holeeycow 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Is happening to me right now in my office,the girl that help me while i was sicked now want to date me and cos i couldn't agreed to that,she now want to tarnish my image and also calling my girlfriend line and be insulting her but i really made it cleared to her that i have someone who i intent to marry and now she don't longer disturb me again.So please don't even start it cos it will affect your work.Thanks
2007-01-24 08:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by ladosluv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey let it go. It may hurt but he isn't good for you.
2007-01-24 08:27:35 · answer #9 · answered by Sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over yourself find someone who cares about you
2007-01-24 08:35:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋