really angry and upset and they apologised for it have you forgiven them and moved on ? For example coming home at stupid oclcok in the morning and not calling you to tell you just silly things like that
2007-01-24 00:20:23 · 21 answers · asked by Pebbles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea I got my head bitten off just before xmas by the mrs. I was on a works do and I said i'd be home at 10-11pm (ish). I was having my meal with everyone and getting drunk, then I seen one of my old good friends and he asked me if I wanted to go to town (Warrington). I did and I got back home for 3am. Raghh my head was gone haha but then again if she came in that late I would have done the same thing. It goes both ways just make sure you put your foot down and make sure you let him know that he owes you :D
The final thing it all comes down too though is trust. If you don't trust him then what's the point?
2007-01-24 00:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by phobzy85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not hold a grudge, everyone makes mistakes, and everyone has come home later than expected. For silly things like that I would say tell them you are upset, let them apologise, then accept that apology and forget the matter. Would you like it if your partner constantly brought up all the little things you have done wrong? It would make for a very uncomfortable relationship.
2007-01-24 08:25:21 · answer #2 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how much you like this person? With ever choice there is a gamble? If you like this person and think the benefits long term would outweigh then try to forget the past and move on, making sure he makes an effort. If on the other hand seems like to much hard work? Well then I suggest that you just leave it be and go your own way, save you a lot of heart ache and grief in the longer run. Good luck with what ever you choose to do!
2007-01-24 08:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not silly to expect a call from your partner that he will be late in arriving home-but is it because of his work schedule or something else-like cheating? You are the one to answer that. But start with the facts before getting angry, upset and hurt over it. Just ask for what you want from him.
2007-01-24 08:24:55 · answer #4 · answered by singsong 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound uptight so chances are for you, you will forgive one thing and then get your nose out of joint by another thing. The cycle has begun until you get to a point where you think you have forgiven far to many times.
For me.. I get hung up less about stupid little things so I only need to forgive the major stuff.. Like his cheating, or the fact that the girl slaps me or something like that.
2007-01-24 08:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get upset so much about something so small then you sound like hard work to live with... take a chill pill, move on and get upset about things in life that are worth it.
2007-01-24 08:25:50 · answer #6 · answered by 2 good 2 miss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say move on. The example you gave is hardly reason to hold onto being angry. You are the only one who is angry in the end and remaining unhappy...
2007-01-24 08:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Dee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive and forget in those circumstances, however more damaging ones such as an affair, I could possibly forgive after time apart and re-kindling the relationship but I'd never forget!
2007-01-24 09:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by Need_to_know 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always best to forgive people, but that doesn't mean you need to stick around for the rest, they're not going to change much, so I would just move on!
2007-01-24 09:40:20 · answer #9 · answered by kez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol @ stupid o'clock. It all depends on why they didn't come home. If it's a habitual thing, no, there'd be no forgiving. Basically you know what you can and can't get over. If you can't get over it, don't force yourself to, just move on to a guy that can tell time and find his way home.
2007-01-24 08:24:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋