I met this really great guy and went out with him for the 1st time last week, we had a great time and i stayed for a few hours over his. He said he would call me this week and its now wednesday, we exchanged txts since then but its always me doing the first move, has he lost interest?
2007-01-23 23:57:02 · 25 answers · asked by carmen260 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry to say this but it sounds like it. because if he was head over heals, wild horses would not keep him away. dont worry about it if you have only met him once. the rigth guy will come along. count your self lucky. my wife left me last month now im a single dad with two little kids. lives a *****. xx
2007-01-24 21:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a rule - I think if a guy is really interested he should probably call the next day or thereabouts.
If you're both texting though he prob still has an interest..
why not bite the bullet and give him a call - or text him and ask him if he fancies meeting up again - you'll know for sure how he feels then
Good luck
xx
2007-01-24 00:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the beginning of a romantic relationship, everything has a maximum shelf life of a week.
It's not really Wednesday, is it? Look how early it is!
So, forget him after a week, but even Thursday is rude. Stop making first moves, I'm a guy, and even I believe that.
2007-01-24 00:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in such hurry,allow the guy time to think either he is still interested or not.And who knows may be he want to see either you too wants him or not.And i hope you didn't mess up things the first place u went out with him or look like one cheap goat for Christmas meal.Be calm if he is for u OK but if it is not u will see in his behaviors by not even bothering himself about u.Be a woman of substance and never force yourself on a man cos men hate cheap girls
2007-01-24 00:10:53 · answer #4 · answered by ladosluv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 days
2007-01-23 23:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by DOM S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do not expect too much from him. if he really like you, it wont take too long for him to call you. he should have call you before you go to bed that day if he's really interested in you or even right after he arrived home to inform you he's already there. its better if you stop texting him and try to move on. maybe he's not the right guy for you.if you'll see each other again, fine! but try not to do the first move because if he really like you, he'll follow you whatever it take.
2007-01-24 00:21:32 · answer #6 · answered by mar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stayed a while at his I reckon he would have sent you a text about the same night, or the day after. Dont' make the first move, I wouldn't. If he thinks you aught to run after him now, I dont' think you should.
2007-01-24 00:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by shortnotsilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you slept with him, he probably wont call, as hes got what he wanted. But if you didnt sleep with him, then try not to get too hung up about it. Maybe he doesnt want to call hoping that you get the hint, so move on and have fun. If he calls you then thats good, and if he doesnt then you have had fun and forgotton all about him!
2007-01-24 00:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys need lots of time to sort themselves out.
Do not text him again and get back to him after some time not immediately. Do not run to a guy, they just run from us like that.
Pull back and play a little hard to get, if he doesn't chase a bit then it would never work anyway. Men need the chase.
2007-01-24 00:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't wait. If he's interested, he'll call. If you wait, you're making yourself a doormat. Just forget him and don't think about it until he does call. You're only setting yourself up for heartache if you sit by the phone constantly.
2007-01-24 00:02:20 · answer #10 · answered by kpk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋