I'm loving a girl in my class. I started having this feeling a year ago.
We were quite close friends last year, before she noticed that I actually love her. Then, she started avoiding me, I could feel that she didn't want to talk to me. Luckily when she got really sick, I had a good opportunity to draw a picture for her and give her some comfort and made her really happy.
After summer holiday, we met again. I can see that she isnt avoiding me now. But not close friends anymore. I have heard from my friend that she liked someone in our class. Evidence show that it wasn't me but another guy.
So if you were me, would you move on? Investing time on a girl who doesn't really love you? I really love her, but she makes me upset when she gets close with that guy...
2007-01-23 23:51:16 · 7 answers · asked by andy l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey! I've been in the exact same position as the girl you're talking about.
Let me explain her reactions- she started avoiding you because she didn't know how to react. You're her close friend and then you start having feelings she doesn't know to respond to- she can't be mean because you're her friend ,yet she doesn't have the the same feelings and she can't pretend to love you (it would be unfair to you both).
Then you two have a break, she's hoping you have worked through your feelings and come to terms with the fact she doesn't return them. She even has a boyfriend now which is a subtle message that she is moving on- so should you.
So decide- you can still be her friend if you accept that that's all it's ever going to be. If not, create some distance and work through your feelings and then later attempt friendship
2007-01-24 00:05:09 · answer #1 · answered by Girly girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'd move on. You're only setting yourself up for a world of hurt when she dates this other guy. It's hard but you can move on. Try to find someone who feels the same way about you. Good luck!
2007-01-23 23:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously this girl is not interested in you the way that you are interested in her. I say move on and find someone that will return your feelings. The worst thing that you can do is love someone who does not love you back.
2007-01-23 23:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by kristin747 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sorry to say but if I were you I would rather move on before you get hurt out of this situation
2007-01-24 00:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't move on just yet. Id tell her how u feel 1st ,maybe she has same feelings 4 u too but u won't know unless you ask.
2007-01-23 23:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i'd probably move on.. try and find another girl to swoon over
2007-01-23 23:54:16 · answer #6 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is supposed to make you happy .
i'd move on if i were u.
2007-01-23 23:59:02 · answer #7 · answered by fate_n83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋