I am going out with a guy who is a year younger than me (been together 6 months). his previous relationships (and ex wife) have all been considerably younger than him (up to 10 years younger) we are both in our mid 30's now.
He and I do not have a very good sex life at the moment as he has a lot of stress due to mid divorse and an ill parent and is not in the mood very often, but he when we are out I often see him looking at younger ladies, and he will often comment on how good they look etc. I am worried that he is not attracted to me in a sexual way as I am older (and bigger) than his previous ladies. he has told me he loves me and is happy he is with an older woman who is more his equal and that he has felt like a father figure in the past, but it is knocking my confidence in him with the lack of sex and his constant eyeing up of younger ladies :-(
2007-01-23 23:48:26 · 7 answers · asked by happy girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do you worry about? He WAS together with younger women and it seems it didn't work as he's not with them anymore. Men love to have an eye on other women, take it or turn lesbian ;-) And don't worry about things you can't change anyway. It's not a matter of younger or older, it's a matter of how long both of you go together well.
2007-01-23 23:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by male4girlz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, everyone has their strengths and weakness's - stop putting yourself down on thinking of your weakness and concentrate on your strengths. noone likes people who dwell too much on their weakness. do things the younger ladies can't do. if you have strong will power - turn your weakness into a strength and get fit - only you can initiate this call.
2007-01-24 07:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by tripppah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like they say one hand cant clap alone, you got to initiate something exciting during your sexual intercourse...dont just do the typical things be creative try to come up with new things make his fantasies come true if he have any...other wise find another if your much into sex.
2007-01-24 08:00:32 · answer #3 · answered by Louy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably could be either way. I am sure that you have a keen sense of intuition. Use your instincts. Good luck to you. Dont get hurt!
2007-01-24 07:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by E-Razz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, He's one of those wack job losers that really go for young girls. Never really could see those guys,, the really make me ill. stay with him if you like perverts. If not, find a guy who is sane and normal. ug-o
2007-01-24 07:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, But I think you are reading him right. He may love you, BUT NOT as much as he says. And if he is LOOKING at other women, well his sex drive is still working. Sorry.
2007-01-24 07:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on...
2007-01-24 08:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by ropemancometh 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋