Can girls be like this?

Question

HI..^_^

I've never had the chance to have a relationship or proper friendship bcus of unexplainable reasons.

I am a person, who respects girls. Who thinks that girls are a piece of treasure............charming,gentle, wise and helpfull, sacrificing and giving, understanding and humble, naughty and nice, sweet and sour, jewels......( my idea of my true love maybe?..^_^) And I still think so.

But sometimes I have heard of the fact that girls can be real real jerks sometimes. They can completely make a man hero to zero. They can ruin a person's life. Completely insane and thoughtless.

Is it true?

Are all my sweet preconceptions about girls........a bare naked lie??

pls help this completley confused, yet thoughtful and mature teen..

Answer 1

look,

first of all you have to see girls as normal persons, not some angels. girls are human, therefore you will meet nice ones, stupid ones, nasty ones as so on.
the idea is to treat them with respect, but remember that each person is different; some people can ruin your life, some are really nice.
I met both men and women capable of ruining your life. it's only human.

Answer 2

Of course it's true. But you can't generalize people like that, everyone's different. There are plenty of jerks in any kind of race, gender, age, religion, etc. but there are always great people in any of those catagories, too. I think you're smart enough to tell which ones are the slutty ones and which ones are the 'jewels' as you put it. Watch out for yourself, I think a lot of girls would knock eachother over to get a trusting and caring guy like you. ;) Oh yeah and one more thing, it sounds like you worship women. We are ordinary people and some might even think it's kind of freaky that you do that. But don't be afraid to be who you are.

There you have it from an ambitious, and also mature teen... lol.

Answer 3

Girls are like anyone else - some are nice, some are smart, some are jerks and some are crazy.
I think that you put girls on too much of a high pedestal and maybe it's freaking girls out. I've been in this situation and when you feel like a guy is worshipping you, you feel like he's not seeing you for who you really are. Or you feel like once he sees your bad side that he's going to lose interest. We all have faults, bad moods, car accidents, we fart and curse. But we can have all those good qualities too. Just make sure that you love and respect girls for who they are; and that includes the bad stuff too.

Answer 4

Well, you sound like a father's dream for a guy that they would want dating their daughter. I know my dad would like you!! No, that is not a bare naked lie, sometimes people hid different sides of themselves so that they would be excepted my more instead of being themselves and being excepted by one. Of course a woman can ruin a guys life, just like a guy can ruin a girls'. Hey, what goes around comes around, right? Even though when you try to help it come around, you usually end up getting someone that is completely innocent and has nothing to do with the situation caught up in it. that is usually how people get the misconceptions of jerks and such. You just have to use good judgement, and of course, know when to, and when not to let your gaurd down.

Answer 5

your half right. Being a mature teen myself i have met up with really nice girls/guys and really evil mean and twisted girls/ guys. It depends on the age and your view point on the situation


love,
eli

ps- how old are u?

Answer 6

yes i think that describes us quite well.. as a group... of course you have your nice girls.. your slutty girls.. your manulaptive girls.. bitchy girls..

all types.. you just have to keep searching for the one who is all of those things.. :) evenly not just more of what then the other :)

Answer 7

dont worry.. we think the same thing about guys