im not dating this guy, we meet up now and then. i havent slept with him even tho he wants to.
2007-01-23 23:32:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get rid of him and tell him to get lost. A guy who is looking to have sex with you has no principles, is a user and isn't worth speaking to, let alone go out with.
2007-01-23 23:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys blow hot and cold because they're guys!!! That's what they do. That's how they're made. It's kind of like they want you to like them, but when you do, they suddenly think,"oh no!! What about the 40 million other women in the world I haven't slept with!?" and get panicky that you'll tie them down, they'll fall in love with you and that'll be the end of freedom forever! It's all about sowing wild oats for men, in my opinion. They're biologically made to want to roam around doing the deed with as many women as will hold still long enough.
My advice ; find a guy who blows warm, consistently. A guy who wants you, as you are, for who you are and accepts you warts and all. A guy who wants to know about your dhildhood and your family, not just what you'll be serving for breakfast tomorrow.
Good luck!!!
2007-01-23 23:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by CheeseFest 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur question is sort of conflicting.
i think that as people mature, they become more consistent.
i have only ever blown cold a couple of times when i was younger.
i deeply regret those times.
some people mature very quickly and are ready for marriage and stuff in their teens. most/a lot of teens are all over the shop. it is very confusing and hence we get a lot of qu's on here which start something like.... does he love me????
watch out for those, there's usually quite a few!!!
2007-01-23 23:39:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kinda sounds to me like he's kinda interested but not sure. I mean if I'm with a girl I dont just not contact her for 12 days.
2016-03-29 00:04:21 · answer #4 · answered by Jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same reason that some women blow hot & cold! That is just life sadly.
2007-01-23 23:35:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
They want their cake and to eat it, they like the thrill of the chase and once they have caught you then sometimes they decide they don't want you anymore. Hang in there, there are some decent men left
2007-01-23 23:35:17 · answer #6 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He just wants occasional sex, that is it, no extras. If he wanted a relationship, he'd bee calling you and dating you and trying to be serious...he just wants a few one night stands. Move on!
2007-01-23 23:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a firm beleiver in peoples nature and behavior characteristics according to astrological signs. Let the stars be your guide!
2007-01-23 23:36:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
perhaps he is unsure whether to make a move or not. Either that or he isnt interested. Avoid any misunderstandings and talk to him about it
2007-01-23 23:35:29 · answer #9 · answered by L 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your gut instincts and you will not make a mistake you might otherwise regret.
2007-01-27 22:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by dtedad-50 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋