ok i know my question sounds awful but the girl im seein has been losing my interest...to indepedent, too much time when shes nowhere to be found, only seems to talk, get down when she feels like it...i met another chick and i think shes hot but shes been playin games, inviting me over but backing out a few times now...so if i start seeing this other chick whats the best time to cut the girl im seein now loose?i dont wanna end up w/ no one so i wanna make the right choice this time.
2007-01-23 23:23:21 · 9 answers · asked by wizzpack 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Date them both, your NOT married are you?
A word of advise: Don't advertise this fact as this could cause some problems with the current partner. Good luck!
2007-01-23 23:32:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too independent? What does that mean? Does she have a working brain and that scares you? Sounds like it. You do need to be alone for awhile. You need that alone time to grow up and realize people aren't here for your amusement. Are you that bad that you don't want to be all by your lonesome? Grow a set, dump your gf before she dumps you (because oh yeah, it's coming) and leave the other girl alone. From what you said, she's just not that into you.
2007-01-24 07:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't leave your partner for a "possible" better situation. Discuss your feelings with your present partner and explain what is bothering you. Maybe something is bugging her about you which makes her hold back. Never know unless you talk about it. However, it is a tough thing to abandon a relationship that is going south when you have nothing to replace it with.
Good luck! I'll be thinking about you.
2007-01-24 07:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by pbrackel1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who do you want to be with? Just be honest. If you are leaving your options open with the second girl then now is the time to break up with your partner before you destroy her trust in you (& possibly her future relationships). You sound like a bit of a jerk really.
2007-01-24 07:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by Mishell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve no one if you're selfish enough to think like that. In fact you should be shot. Have you even spoken to your g/f yet about your problems? I'm guessing not becuase guys like you just think about themselves. Maybe if you stop looking around to se if you can get a "better deal" maybe you'd realise that you are actually happy with what you've got and if you can't get that, you're just going to die sad poor and lonely one day wondering what happaned. and that will be what you deserve. Vote this answer a thumbs up if you agree!
2007-01-24 07:33:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get up and leave a partner when you don't want to date them anymore, simple as that.
leave your current girl at your own risk... there's no guarantee that the new girl will stop playing games with you. if change your mind again and you decide you want to go back to your original girl, she will probably tell you to shove it (or at least she should).
what's so wrong with ending up with no one? why do you NEED to have a girlfriend?
2007-01-24 07:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, examine yourself...ask yourself..who do you really want to be with for the rest of your life? are you ready to face the consequences in case youve made the wrong choice? just follow what your heart dictates .. but ill tell you, heart isnt always right, so you have to choose your heart and your mind .... and whichever name whispers in your ears, go for it..
2007-01-24 07:30:49 · answer #7 · answered by fashion時尚嬰孩玩偶doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her when u r with gf and u start thinkin about the other girl
2007-01-24 07:35:48 · answer #8 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should be sincere!what if the other chick that you saw did the same to you!
2007-01-24 07:31:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋