im stil in love with my ex beating me self up of what he mite b doin i stil beleive even thoe we not togther he loves me and 1 am the 1, i no his is the 1 love everythin bout him jus wont him to grow up , but im ignorein him as he is seien how i am and not actuallt woontin me bk or said he wonts to change for me mbaie im not the 1 anymore ? but i fink i am ands he is letin it go
2007-01-23 23:19:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love somebody, let them go. If they return, they were always yours. And if they don't, they never were
2007-01-23 23:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if he dsnt want to go out with you there is notthin you can do, apart from staying in bed late wtch ur fave movie and eats lots of choc and if u dnt like choc them some other fatty food and try not to think about him. There is no use in beating urself up about it because that is just goin to make you feel even worse just have a few days chillin and DO NOT THINK ABOUT HIM!!!!! u crnt make someone love you and even if he does (not saying that he does) love you then you are being a bit clingy and that can be a bit off puttin so try and be friends and then see if he likes you cus he will make the first move but if you keep clingin on to ur past him it will make you more upset!!! take care.
2007-01-23 23:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by lauren p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get used to being on your own. Get to enjoy life with just you (friends) if he is then having doubts, but sees you getting on with life he might come running back if he sees you as not be ing so needy, some people cant cope with 24/7 and the greatest gift of love is to let them go, Dont keep asking him questions enquire just what his life is like let him tell you things otherwise you come across as jealous & obsessive and this will only push him away. If he needs to change to make you happy he is not the right person, our partners should never need to change their just needs to be compremising between the couple as long as the things you want changed aren't of the abusive nature then i would say get out anyway no one deserves that. Hope this helped, keep your chin up.
2007-01-24 00:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by soemotional 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way to let go of someone you are in love with. Infact it's the hardest thing to do. You just have to do it & let time heal the pain, as it always does. Make sure you keep yourself busy with productive activities such as exercise & hanging out with close friends/family etc. Be kind to yourself & read lots of self help books from your local library or buy them if you can afford it. Good luck.
2007-01-23 23:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by Mishell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking of him and all the moments you spent together. Think about more important things like your studies, work and family. Also, focus your thoughts on happy things and try to get over him. You'll one day will and I hope you'll find someone better who will know how to cherish you and not beat yo;u up or do abusive things to you. Good luck and God bless.
2007-01-23 23:24:47 · answer #5 · answered by Clemence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear girly,this world is all about patience,in my own way what i think you should do since you still love him is that you should sit him down and talk 2him.But 4the fact that he beats you?Oh my GOD,and you know he loves you upon the brutality then when talking 2him make sure you are not in the same place with him else he is going 2beat you 4talking 2him.Don't just end with him like that.Call him if he has a phone especialy in the midnight call 2b very easy,ask him several questions about the relationship,ask him if he still love you and he wants you 2b with him,if yes,then ask him 2change his characters towards you.I believe is going 2work......GOOD LUCK MY DEAR.
2007-01-24 00:50:13 · answer #6 · answered by ELEGANTA BABY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably wants to move on then, you should do the same if you have split up. If you did not talk about the split up i.e. Argued. Go round and see him and have a word with him about your feelings maybe you can work things out. Good luck :)
2007-01-23 23:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by phobzy85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
strewth, stop hanging on to the past in the hope that he is going to change and you and him are going to run off into the sunset and live happily ever after - it wont happen.
as I said in my previous answer to your previous question, you cant change someone. if this bloke hasnt actually said he wants you back just grow up yourself and move on. theres nothing worse than a needy woman.
2007-01-23 23:26:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your eyes focused on the future. Don't live in the past. it will get in the way of all your future relationships. Learn from your mistakes and move on
2007-01-23 23:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If i could understand a word you've written it might be easier...........perhaps you should start off with a few English lessons and then ask the question again!!!!
2007-01-23 23:37:38 · answer #10 · answered by splandastic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's lettin it go, then yer no the one!!!! wake up and get over it.
Don't prolong the misery by wishing!
2007-01-23 23:48:01 · answer #11 · answered by kez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋