I do I get all the angr out of my husband, we went to church for a while and they made him mad. Everything makes him angry. You can ask him a yes or no question and his tone is so sharp. What do I do?
2007-01-23 23:13:00 · 5 answers · asked by twyla 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Generally anger is the result of unmet or rather blocked goals! There greatest challenge is getting to understand the what goals have been blocked or seem unreachable. The only way to do this is to give your husband time and opporttunity and to get him to talk about his feelings more than things and results.
In addition pray! For the Holy Spirit is the best consellor the is and the greatest teacher and helper espcially when dealing with thing not know.
Armed with this information, either help realign his goals so the the success will breed more and bring a change in atitude or help to achieve the blocked goal!
2007-01-23 23:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by insane2mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has just gotten angry since attending church I would think they made him open his eyes to something which he doesn't want to acknowledge or admit. Maybe they hit a nerve with one of the sermons. People just don't get angry for NO reason.
It will come to light soon. Pray for him and be patient. Ask if there is anything you can do to help or ask what he heard that set him off.
2007-01-24 07:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by Deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband isn't happy with himself and therefore he isn't happy with others and is angry all the time. You need to try to sit down with him and ask him why he is angry. But you have to use a soft calming voice. Was he an only child? was he a spoiled child? If he doesn't get his own way, does he get angry? Could this also be his problem?
2007-01-24 07:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he still loves you!!
See where the conversation goes from there.
I suspect there is something in his life that is not going well, and he is angry with everyone and about everything.
However what every you do, don't push.
If you give him the proper opening, he will tell you what he wants you to know, if anything, and to try to make him say more could make him angrier.
grace2u
2007-01-24 07:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by Theophilus 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Pray to Jesus, & ask others to pray for you & your husband as well. I will pray for you & your husband.
2007-01-24 07:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by Jason 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋