2007-01-23 22:52:18 · 15 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think guys can take it.they are not all that sensitive as girls.im sure when i find the right one.they would move on too.
2007-01-23 23:03:52 · update #1
damn right. you haven't promised anything. just dating, right?
2007-01-23 22:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋
there is having a stand by and there is taking advantage,,if you both know you are just having fun,go for it but if there is any chance he may feel this relationship is going somewhere,,maybe even the wedding you should call it a day,,with him anyway but do bear in mind,,you could wait forever for mr right just to find someone else has him and you waited for nothing,,our mr right may indeed be out there but you may or may not recognize him as you havent opened up to the prospect he may be right in front of you!
2007-01-24 07:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it wouldn't be right at all. Your taking advantage of him for being a nice guy and the guy deserves so much more. Since your obviously not interested in more then let the guy go. Be honest. ;o)
2007-01-24 07:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ah sweety...thats such a sad question!
Whether its girls or guys we ALL tend to do the same thing! And it is like the most unfair thing!!!
Unfortunately i am a cruel person and my answer has got to be yes, for now! But i hope i have the courage to eventually change and treat people the way i would want to be treated!
2007-01-24 07:03:13 · answer #4 · answered by Sistr P* 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, you should not keep anyone on standby because it reflects on you.
How is the rigt one going to feel about you if he finds out that you treated someone that way?
2007-01-24 06:54:37 · answer #5 · answered by malcolmg 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't toy with anyone that way - it's called playing games and it's an indication of severe insecurity. You're basically asking if it's ok to use someone. No.
2007-01-24 06:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by Marvelissa 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If, he's nice, then he's GOOD. Find out if he's fun, and then decide if you want to keep him for REAL. If you want a nasty cheater, give Mr. Nice away, and he'll be happier with someone who appreciates him. I have a nice one, and he's fun, sexy, and makes me laugh. I am keeping him to the best of my ability!
2007-01-24 06:59:37 · answer #7 · answered by kfarq2001 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Would YOU wanna be a "standby" girl till a guy finds someone better????? No, its wrong!
2007-01-24 06:56:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Would you want to be on stand by while he was hunting for Ms Right? There's your answer.
2007-01-24 06:55:51 · answer #9 · answered by Grianagh 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no, i don't think that's right. i don't want to give the nice guy false hope. also, that'll be unfair for him if eventually i've found the right one.
2007-01-24 07:03:00 · answer #10 · answered by emma 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No......that's using him and is a horrible thing to do. If he's a nice guy, then he has got feelings.
2007-01-24 06:55:58 · answer #11 · answered by lou b 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋