How do man feel?

Question

I am 26 years old and just filed for divorce...I was married to my high school sweetheart. I have two boys 8 and 4. How do man feel about a women with kids. Not just one kid but two. I have been thinking about this and just wondering how man feel.

Answer 1

Men dont usually want to take on other peoples kids...I would wait until they were older before I dated again..it will cause too much problems and there are too many paedophiles preying on single mothers with young children.

Answer 2

Hey, relax.
I was divorced at 28 years old, I then had a girlfriend who had 2 kids then i had another girlfriend who had 1 kid, both didnt work out for their own reasons, now I am 31 single and searching.

As a male it is difficult to join a family with a couple of kids but it can work and then there is all the more people to become attatched to, not just the woman but the new guy also will get attached to the kids in a parental sort of way too.

Answer 3

first off...its how do mEn feel not mAn feel. Secondly it really depends on the guy....It can be a turn off, and the fact that you have had a prior relationship that lasted so long can also run guys away, simply because it may seem as if they are your fallback. On the otherside, many men love children, and might respect the fact that you have had a long relationship in the past, because this shows your true loyalty, and experience with a relationship

Answer 4

I'm speaking from a womans point of view. I must be honest with you, I had two children from a previous relationship and it took a man with big feet to fill those shoes. My current husband of 8 years said that he wouldn't do it all over again because of dealing with the other man. Unfortunatly, we are on the verge of a seperation not to mention he and I have a child together.

Answer 5

Well i guess it depends on the man. younger males arounds ur age will not want the responsibility of 2 kids. I think you have to just start dating. untill u find one that doesnt mind. but it is a little bit of a turn off if u want my opinion. im a 25 male.

take care and have fun

Answer 6

Guess if the man loves the woman enough it doen't matter, but there is so much involved, such as financial, respect on both sides. Give it some careful thought before you plunge into another relationship. The man might tell you it doesn't matter at the outset, but as time goes on, it might matter.

Answer 7

kids are usually not the problem its the ex factor that is becasue ocne u have kids they never every go away....and they rightly shoudl always come first... once a man understands this.. then he will be fine... problem occurs when a man thinks you are trying to supplicate him with kids.. and not just anykids anothermans kids at that!! we men like our attention... we can tolerate division of attention only whne our kids are involved.. you see??
but real men know better.. and those are few and far between i think... but unfortunatly us real men... are usually last

Answer 8

Just be careful that:
1/ the next bloke does want the idea of a family and you, not just the idea of the family.
2/ the next bloke does not see you as an easy catch and dumps you after the novelty wears off.

Answer 9

If the man s in love with you, kids are no problem.
With love everything is possible, without love everything is a problem.
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Answer 10

I am not opposed to the idea of women with children but I know that I personally am not ready for children.
There are lots of men who will like you though so don't worry.